Notes of Faith July 23, 2023

Notes of Faith July 23, 2023

A Good Catch

I know that my Redeemer lives, and He shall stand at last on the earth.

— Job 19:25

Tournament fishermen depend on sponsors. Without sponsorship, most if not all tournament anglers cannot compete. I know I couldn’t. We have had some situations where very well-known pros have quit the game after losing a couple of major sponsors. They simply couldn’t pay the bills to keep competing.

Tip: A Tokyo Rig is an exceptional “back of the boat” search bait.

Have you ever been in a tough financial situation like that?

Job was, and worse. He lost everything but his wife and his life. All his children, all wealth, all associates, all health, all possessions, all gone. Total desperation! How would you react? Would you blame someone? Blame God? We can see in today’s verse that at Job’s most dreadful moment, his faith seemed the greatest. God was his Redeemer, and he stood on that belief.

We will have trials. We will have pain. But we know that our Redeemer lives!

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Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. — Psalm 37:4

Fishermen look at Bass Pro Shops like a big candy store. I’ve got to admit, it’s true for me as well. My buddy Johnny Morris, founder of Bass Pro, is just as bad as you and me. Johnny has already bought all that neat hunting and fishing stuff in there. He already owns it.

You know the thing I really like about today’s scripture? It says God will give you the desires of your heart. We don’t have to earn them or work for them. All we need to do is delight in the Lord, honor Him, study His Word, praise Him, put Him first. This is easy. This is great! How do we know when a blessing is from God? It comes unexpectedly and seems to drop out of Heaven. When God’s time is right, He gives us the desires of our hearts.

Tip: I like to fish with a 7’3” medium-heavy Jimmy Houston Blaze Series rod when fishing with a Whopper Plopper.

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You are my God, and I will praise You; You are my God, I will exalt You.

— Psalm 118:28

Tip: Search out isolated targets to fish — stumps, rocks, docks, duck blinds, laydowns, and so on.

Everybody has their favorite fish. I guess the most popular in America is crappie. Many love bass, and there are lots of catfishermen out there. Trout, stripers, white bass, wipers, walleye, muskie, gar; every species has its die-hard followers. Me, I love ’em all!

But when we love something too much — like power, wealth, or popularity — it can become like worshiping another god. We must be careful to give our praise to the only God, the God who hung the moon and stars, and individually call Him “my God.” More importantly, He calls us His children. And He loves us with a love that never fades or ends. God is working in our lives every day and for our good. But we praise God for who He is and not for what He does for us. We exalt God because He is worthy of exaltation and worship.

Excerpted from Catch a Better Life by Jimmy Houston, copyright Jimmy Houston.

I love to fish. Sometimes I don’t catch much or catch smaller or less numbers than I had hoped for. But just being out in the beauty of God’s creation is enough for me. It also helps that I have never gone fishing alone. I have my family, typically, or a part thereof, and that is all the blessing that I need. Yes, I love to fish, and God has put within my heart the joy of fishing for men! I pray that you love to do both as well.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 22, 2023

Notes of Faith July 22, 2023

Cheering for Someone When They Get What You Want

I live in a home of athletes, raised in the school of hard work and dedication — literal blood, sweat, and tears. When your boys play football and you’re the mother who supports them, you learn early on to live with both the smells of their jerseys and the fears that require prayers for God to have them out there on the field.

I expected sports to teach my kids important things. What I didn’t expect is how much my children’s experience with them would also teach me.

My boys never asked my permission to fall in love with football, or I probably would have said no. But my joy had no choice but to get on board, watching my sons do what they loved. My middle son, Micah, started playing especially early, at the age of seven, for the local rec league at the nudge of the coach (a close family friend) and upon the lure of a fancy stitched uniform. He played receiver, and his best friend played quarterback. Every Saturday we loaded up the Suburban with coolers, donned T-shirts with “Whittle” across the back, and watched our boy play his guts out, often up against boys twice his size. When he scored his first touchdown, and then a second and a third in the same game, we knew his talent was going to take us for a fun ride.

Season after season, summer after summer of practice and off-season workouts, we lived through eleven years of football life. Getting up at six in the morning for workouts with the older boys, just to be near the sport, rec league to middle school to JV to varsity. I even had a summer stint as a volunteer coach’s assistant when Micah was about ten and between seasons. When he was in eighth grade, he moved to a school ranked nationally in football. He was on a team of able peers; they all soared in the sport. As early as ninth grade, conversations in the stands began circulating about who might get offers to play at the next level, though the boys were barely fourteen.

Junior year of high school arrived, and with it, for hopeful athletes, prime season for college offers. Despite the team winning a state championship and despite Micah’s hard work, the season was racked with personal disappointment. One by one, Micah’s best friends who had sweated on the field with him for years received offers from big schools to play college football. Micah received none.

I watched the whole thing, my heart breaking for him a little more every time. I watched him get bypassed, and I sensed the pain of being overlooked. But what I saw at the same time taught me an invaluable lesson: I saw Micah cheer for each of his friends even while his heart wanted what they got. I knew he hurt. As I had so many times through the years when he took the field, I prayed for him. But this time I prayed something different.

I prayed that in the quiet of his bedroom, alone with his thoughts, God would keep him from envy. That he would be comforted in his pain. That he would know God saw him, cared for him, and had a plan for him far beyond football. That even though this moment was hard, he would eventually discover, in some way, why it was good. I knew at least in one way it already was:

The invaluable lesson of cheering for someone who gets what you want shapes your character in ways always winning never can.

Through this, my son would become a better man.

That was the real prize worth getting.

Undoubtedly you have your own story that involves a moment when cheering for someone else didn’t come easy. When someone gets what we have worked for or desperately want for ourselves, it is almost unthinkable to celebrate their gain. Maybe you are thinking about what someone else has that you want right now. If not, it might not take you long to recall something. We aren’t typically short on desire.

The risk for any of us who watch others get the engagement ring we want… the work promotion… the attention online… the coveted position in life we feel we’ve worked equally hard for or (buckle up — here’s the truth) feel we deserve more, and then deny that those feelings exist, is that it builds bitterness, not character. So I don’t want us to deny that we want, as Jesus followers are prone to do, like “good Christians.” I want us to work through the very human feelings.

Sometimes we are a front-end reactor. We take someone else’s success hard right at first, but we pray, work through it, and wind up with a healthy perspective.

Other times we are a back-end reactor. We offer support immediately, and later comes a realization of a perceived injustice, and we wind up angry. This way of processing often happens when the root of bitterness sets in and the initial right attitude is derailed by negative thoughts that have festered over time. (Or at times the initial support wasn’t sincere.)

Sometimes we never accept someone else’s success or gain, never change our perspective to see any positive in it, and never let it change us for the good. Sadly, this is where a lot of us live, stewing for years over something someone else has that we never got. Something we may even still think we want that is clearly not meant for us.

The person who learns to cheer for someone else doesn’t have those mental restraints, which is why they become such a usable force for the Kingdom of God.

When for most of our life we tend to be so inwardly focused, it’s no wonder cheering for others becomes a notoriously hard task. In nearly every equation the thing we most need to shake off is ourselves. (This does not include being taken advantage of and boundary-less, which is not godly, has no merit, and stems from something completely different.) If this sounds foreign to your ears, it’s probably because you’ve gotten used to the opposite message of this world, which says that we are the most important, which is fantastic to hear, but not gospel. We actually aren’t on the list when in Matthew 22:36-39 God gives the top two Greatest Commandments: to love God (first) and love your neighbor (second), adding “as yourself” to give reinforcement to the depth because He well knows how much we love ourselves.

Before you misunderstand this to mean that I don’t believe we are important or don’t believe in self-love, know that anytime God asks us to love others, it is with the Sovereign understanding that on any level of its sacrifice, we will find our deepest fulfillment. This is a way to love ourselves.

Cheering for someone who has what we want is like a gift card we give ourselves to more freely see our blessings, and, as a result, we’re not so focused on what someone else has.

It all comes full circle. Especially when accompanied by prayer, confession, and study of the Word, cheering for someone else is the way to break those bitterness chains. Most of us don’t take the initiative, instead waiting to feel joy for the other person. But when we choose the joy, our feelings follow suit. First take a chance. Then see the change in you.

Excerpted from The Hard Good: Showing Up for God to Work in You When You Want to Shut Down by Lisa Whittle, copyright Lisa Whittle.

How hard it is to root for others and find joy in their success when you covet what they received. I know this experience…still do not like losing, but sharing in the joy of others has been nurtured by the Spirit of God bringing a happy heart.

Let us learn what it means to rejoice with others even in our disappointment!

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 21, 2023

Notes of Faith July 21, 2023

When You Find Yourself in Yet Another Dark Valley

Right now, a rose and cedar candle is crackling by my side, conjuring up memories of charcoal fires by the beaches of the Michigan lakes of my childhood. It’s the scent of Sunday evening church services all summer, sitting lakeside singing hymns and reciting Scripture. The childlike trust of those summers feels a million miles away, stuck here in yet another dark valley of suffering.

This scent swirls past my story taking me to another seashore, under the peach canopy of dawn, where Jesus sits by a charcoal fire with Peter, cooking him breakfast, feeding him with the love he had just denied knowing. (John 21)

Maybe it’s the candle. Or maybe it’s the echo of Peter’s denial that rang from my lips so recently in my despair. But I am in this story. I am on this beach.

Where do we go when our hearts have crumbled under the weight of fear’s pressure?

On the night that Jesus was betrayed, while the Chief Priest treated Him with contempt, Peter stood outside warming himself over a charcoal fire. (John 18) Three times, when asked if he knew Jesus, Peter disowned his Friend. On a cold, dark night, with all of his hopes of revolution for his people falling to ash, Peter’s fear overshadowed his friendship.

But Jesus was more than Peter knew. And having defeated death, Jesus came to find Peter at the sea, back in the place their friendship was first forged.

We do not know what was in Peter’s heart, but I can imagine. Shame. Confusion. The start of hoping again.

Peter and his friends are on the water. They’ve fished all night and come up with nothing. And a man on the shore calls out to throw their net onto the other side of their boat. And suddenly, the net is so full of fish it’s overflowing. Just like before. Just like the beginning of being with Jesus. (Luke 5)

In such abundance, they recognize Jesus for who He is. And Peter dives into the water, adamant to get to his Friend as fast as possible. His denial clearly wasn’t the whole truth of what lived in his body and heart.

And on the beach, Jesus has started a charcoal fire (John 21:9), just like the one Peter stood over in shame. And instead of asking why he denied Him, Jesus cooks Peter and the other disciples a meal.

Jesus shows us the way out of shame into strength is sustenance. Plain and simple.

Are you ashamed? Maybe what you most need is someone to cook you a meal.

Anthrakian — this Greek word for charcoal fire is only used here and at Peter’s denial. (John 18:18) The scent had to bring his lowest moment back to the surface. But this time, Jesus extends a friendship that no fear could extinguish.

And having fed His friends breakfast, Jesus walks with Peter on the beach and asks him three times:

“Do you love Me?”

Each denial is gathered up in the curl of this question. Each answer, a restoration.

Yes. Yes. Yes.

And with each yes to love, Jesus gives Peter a purpose.

Feed My lambs.

Shepherd My sheep.

Feed My sheep.

Jesus shows us the way out of shame into strength is sustenance.

Back at my desk, this candle still burns. In these long months, I’ve been brought back to the same places of angst and sickness as years past. I’ve stared at the canyon walls, cold and afraid that my Shepherd won’t find me and bring me through. There have been moments I’ve wanted to deny knowing Jesus at all. There have been days that my fear has overshadowed my friendship with Christ. And, He has still come back to find me.

And in the company of Peter, I know what can set the broken heart back to strength.

Repetition can bring restoration.

Finding ourselves in yet another dark valley doesn’t have to mean we are stuck. It can mean we are precisely in the spot where the Shepherd is coming to find us again.

And just like the disciples on the water, Christ will not only return us to the scent of our shame but to the sight of abundance. And we will be fed. Fed more than enough. And so restored, we will reach toward others with the same kindness we have received.

Feed My sheep.

We’ll become people who show each other the way out of shame. Sustenance. Sight. Solidarity.

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Jesus, our Messiah,

the Son of the Living God,

You who gave Simon

a better name

than the shame

that was coming

in denying knowing You

as he stood in the dark,

warming himself

by the flames:

tell us who we are.

Anoint us with a name

we can’t disown

on our worst nights.

Because when we are

called by Your Voice,

we are confirmed

in a love so strong

no trauma or shame

can revoke that we belong

in Your communion of saints,

the church whose gates

even hell cannot break.

Amen.

— from The Book of Common Courage, p. 171

Written for Devotionals Daily by K. J. Ramsey, author of The Book of Common Courage

When we wonder if God is not there in our lives, doubt raises its ugly head, faith begins to falter, even anger at God can find its way into our heart and mind. But God is faithful, never giving up on the one He has chosen and draws us back into His sheepfold, caring for and nurturing our broken hearts and dreams. Let us draw near, especially in times of trouble and distress to the only One who can deliver us and save us, and bring us to His perfect home! Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength…and your neighbor as yourself. The truth of the complete Word of God, our Bibles, rests on these two commands. We must learn to love . . . especially Jesus . . . Do you love Him?

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 20, 2023

Notes of Faith July 20, 2023

My Love and My Loss

Wouldn’t it be a wonderful feeling,” asks Kathie Lee Gifford, former cohost of NBC’s fourth hour of the Today show, “to wake up in the morning and understand that no matter what goes on today, God can make something good out of it?”

Kathie Lee says she was born to entertain. If you were to meet her, you would be tempted at first to think you were encountering someone doing a slapstick version of herself. But it’s just Kathie Lee being Kathie Lee. She didn’t get in front of a camera and discover her television personality; instead, the performer came first and the camera followed.

Kathie Lee’s father told her many times while she was growing up to “find something you love to do and then figure out a way to get paid for it.” Kathie Lee did exactly that. She always knew God made her to perform, and she knew the entertainment industry was where she would fulfill her destiny. In fact, she earned her first paycheck as an entertainer when she was just ten years old.

“It was thrilling getting my first paying job singing,” she says. “I knew exactly what I wanted to do from the time I was a baby. But to be a young woman in that business is brutal because of the rejection. It’s nonstop.”

After a dozen years working as a singer and actress, Kathie Lee rose to national fame cohosting a live morning television show with Regis Philbin in 1985. Beginning locally in New York, Live with Regis and Kathie Lee sprang to national syndication three years after she joined the program and became an American mainstay. Until the summer of 2000, she cohosted the show, which aired on millions of television sets every weekday morning.

She was in her element, doing what she had been born to do, what her parents had always encouraged her to do. But Kathie Lee’s mom and dad had never pushed her to perform.

“I’ve never understood the kind of parent that says to their children, ‘You’ve got to be this or that,’” Kathie Lee says. “I was privileged to have parents like I had. They were extraordinary, loving people. They loved me for who I was and encouraged my dreams.”

Growing up, she always had a song to sing and a show to perform. She found fulfillment in bringing joy and a smile to others. Her always-on-stage approach to life followed her throughout the years.

“I learned the reason that performing was so joyful to me is because God is our creator,” she says. “I am created by God, and I’m made in His image. That means I am also a creator. I feel most divine when I am creating something beautiful. It’s every human being’s purpose.”

Kathie Lee’s joy is not a result of a lucky career or perfect family, as is clear when she speaks of the darker points in her journey. She may have earned eleven Daytime Emmy nominations, written books, released albums, and even contributed to several Broadway productions. But the brighter the limelight shines, the more caustic public reactions to a stumble can turn.

In 1996, reports surfaced that Kathie Lee’s clothing line was produced out of a Honduran sweatshop with abysmally poor working conditions. The reports held her personally responsible. She insisted she had nothing to do with the day-to-day operating of the clothing factories and was only a celebrity sponsor of the apparel. She even worked to bring about legislation to prevent similarly inhumane working conditions elsewhere. But still the public reaction came fierce and hard.

“It was a very dark, dark period for me,” she says. “But God put me to work. There is slavery in the world, more than ever. There are labor conditions that are horrible.”

“It’s unjust what you’ve been accused of,” she heard God say through all this, “but why don’t you get your eyes off of you for a minute and look at the unjust conditions that people are working under. You didn’t cause it, but you need to care about it.”

She became a leading proponent of fair labor laws and used her on-air power to push for legislative changes.

Shalom doesn’t mean just peace. It means all of the aspects of God. It means justice, righteousness, faithfulness, unfailing love, and, yes, peace. It’s a peace that passes all understanding.

In the following year, Kathie Lee’s personal life also hit a new low. Kathie Lee had married Frank Gifford in 1986, and after more than a decade of marriage and two children, Frank was caught in a humiliating and public affair. Tabloids seized upon the story and printed pictures that brought agony to Kathie Lee.

“It was devastating to me,” she says. “But I was able to stay in my marriage and have God heal it. I’ve heard from hundreds of thousands of people since then who got courage from [my experience], courage to stay in their broken marriages and forgive their husbands and wives. They got courage to keep their families together. Not everybody does. I didn’t do it on my own. God gives us everything we need every day.”

Kathie Lee’s journey with God began as a child when Jesus called her name in a dream.

“It’s vivid to me to this day,” she recalls. “In the dream I’m outside in the front yard helping my daddy rake the leaves. We used to play in them. I looked up. There was Jesus sitting on a cloud. He smiled at me and He said my name.”

A few years later, as a twelve-year-old, she walked into a movie theater featuring The Restless Ones, a production of the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association. The movie has been widely panned for its stiff dialogue and overt religiosity, but for many the truth at its core outshone any artistic inadequacies. It told of a young girl on the cusp of womanhood making the choice between going down the road that led to death or one that led to life.

“I could hear the voice of the Lord in the movie,” Kathie Lee says.

“Kathie,” she heard Him say, “will you trust Me to make something beautiful out of your life and go down my road? It’s harder. It’s going to be lonely at times. It’s going to be tougher than the big wide road over there. Ultimately it’s going to be a much more beautiful life, but you’ve got to trust Me.”

After the movie, as with all Billy Graham events, someone rose in the front and asked if anyone wanted to come forward and follow Jesus. The movie, cheesy as it was, served a function for the more than 120,000 people who’d said yes to that question during the time it ran. Kathie Lee was in that number.

“I’ve made a lot of mistakes in my life since then,” she says. “I will make a lot of them before this day is done. But that is one decision I made that I have always been deeply, deeply grateful for. I listened to the voice of Jesus. I heard Him tell me He had a purpose for my life, that He loved me. He wanted to make something beautiful with my life.”

Kathie Lee has Jewish ancestry, and as a Christian she has discovered great significance in a Hebrew word that is found in Jewish greetings, teachings, and scriptures: shalom. The word touches upon the idea of perfection and wholeness.

“Shalom doesn’t mean just peace,” she says, “like it’s come to mean in our world. It means all of the aspects of God. It means justice, righteousness, faithfulness, unfailing love, and, yes, peace. It’s a peace that passes all understanding. That’s what we’re here for. Look around. Do you see the chaos? You’re supposed to be part of the shalom, the peace. That’s what every human heart longs for — to partner in that and know you matter.”

The Bible calls Jesus the Prince of Peace. He’s the one who brings peace and wholeness to the world. But He didn’t sit on that peace and hoard it for Himself. He stepped out of Heaven and got dirty with His people. He lived with them, ate with them, hugged them, and talked with them. He taught His followers to join Him in this work of getting out and bringing peace to the world.

Kathie Lee finds inspiration in Jesus’ example. Jesus got out into the world and confronted the cultural norms of His day. He insisted on spending time with the poor, the sick, the sinner, and the outcast.

For fifteen years on Live with Regis and Kathie Lee, Kathie Lee lived her life publicly, discussing family, marriage, and raising children on a morning talk show for the world to see. People saw her cry, laugh, and ask the deeper questions. After leaving Live, she took some time away from television, then rejoined America’s morning routine in 2008 as cohost with Hoda Kotb of NBC’s fourth hour of Today. For the next decade Kathie Lee continued to follow Jesus’ example of getting out into the world.

“We are supposed to get out and be the sweet fragrance of Jesus to this world,” she says. “Love your neighbor as you love yourself is what Jesus taught. Don’t live in a selfie world. Live in a selfless world. Don’t walk over homeless people on your way to get someplace. We’re supposed to get down and dirty like Jesus did. We’re supposed to wash AIDS patients’ feet. We’re supposed to adopt children who have no home.

“God is perfecting us. Not a physical perfection or personal perfection, but God’s perfect love. He is perfecting love in us. That love leads to perfection in a world yet to come. It’s something to look forward to.”

Excerpted from I Choose Peace by Doug Bender, copyright e3 Partners Ministry.

Believers and followers of Jesus are indeed being perfected in the love of God. Each day we are being changed, transformed into the image of Christ, to express the love of God to the world around us. May we embrace God’s work in us and endeavor to share the glory of God with everyone around us.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 19, 2023 Part 2

Notes of Faith July 19, 2023 Part 2

News around the world tells us we are quickly headed toward one government, one economy, one religion, for everyone in the world. God says, be prepared, for I have told you ahead of time.

The End Times Sign of World Politics

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Archimedes said, “Give me a place to stand, and a lever long enough, and I will move the world.”

What he postulated as a mathematical law of physics has become the megalomaniacal dream of mankind: Give me enough power — concentrated in time and place — and I will rule the world. Kings and rulers have ranged from the relatively benevolent to the utterly despotic. Even today, that spectrum is manifest among the nations of the world.

To the Greeks, “politics” described the affairs of the cities. The Old Testament speaks of kings who ruled over individual cities in Canaan. Later, God gave the Israelites a king following their clamor to “be like all the other nations.” He warned that even the most benign rulers would still take some of their bounty and some of their freedoms.

Today, there is a renewed demand for ever-expanding governmental power. The cry, “there ought to be a law!” leads to an insidious expectation for government solutions to every problem — real or perceived. This, of course, plays into the machinations of our great adversary, who fashions himself a ruler preferable to Almighty God.

That is not to say that government in and of itself is evil. Just as God instituted the family as the basic building block of society, He ordained government to uphold order, encourage societal goods, and punish inevitable wrongs. Within its proper boundary, government is an agent for good.

But Satan has incited mankind to pursue powers and policies that reject God’s laws and usurp His authority. Since Babel, the result has been disappointment, failure, and heartbreak.

God’s Word tells us that the nations of the world will align in a particular way in the End Times. Aspiring global elitists will try to manipulate the nations like pieces on a chessboard. The swirl of world politics is yet another sign that we are living in the season of the Lord’s return.

But the King of kings has the final move!

As we Christians observe the Signs of World Politics playing out around us, take comfort in knowing that neither the elephant or the donkey will prevail in the end. The Lamb who was slain will return as a roaring Lion to set up His own righteous Kingdom on the earth.

I am looking forward to that glorious benevolent Monarchy!

From Lamb and Lion Ministries, forwarded by Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 19, 2023

Notes of Faith July 19, 2023

You Don’t Have to Struggle in Secret

Secret struggles aren’t always what we think. They aren’t necessarily an addiction or terrible money problems or being hooked on porn.

Sometimes it is chronic perfectionism that has become debilitating. Control that has wrecked our relationships. Worry that is keeping us from living.

Or perhaps, the weight of caring for someone else – or keeping their secret -- whose struggle has now become yours.

My mother had a secret struggle that for years, she never told anyone. It wasn’t sinful. It wasn’t even really about her.

She used to go to the pharmacy every day and buy 2 pills my elderly, ailing father needed to stay alive, simply because they couldn’t afford to buy his expensive heart prescriptions all at one time. It was a quiet, daily battle. Only God knew about her lonely daily routine.

Meanwhile, she would go about with her “usual life,” as an art teacher. She would welcome art students into her home (with a smile on her face) to make ends meet… while caring for her disabled husband. Things were busy, but she would be sure to never miss her pharmacy visit, every morning like clockwork.

Though our secret struggles may not stem from us, when they effect people we love, they become our burden, too. We want to help them. We want to keep their issue quiet. We don’t want to expose their pain. All the while, we are compromising our own souls by allowing a secret to nag at us, every day.

We may feel alone, as if there is not another person on the planet who knows what we are going through. But we know from Psalm 44:21 that

[God] knows the secrets of every heart.

There is always One who knows.

It may feel scary to think God knows about something we have tried hard to keep hidden. But His lovingkindness is what assures us that in that unique intimate knowledge of all things past, present and future (God’s omniscience), there exists an eternal intention to rescue, comfort and relieve us as we lay bare before Him. God knows everything about all He created and loves so much. That, my friend, includes you.

There is always One who knows.

If you find yourself with a secret struggle – either one of your own or one that has become yours due to someone close to you, know that God doesn’t want you to live limited in this way. Instead, there are some important things you can do:

1. Learn the difference between privacy and secrecy. We are all entitled to keeping aspects of our life private. But things can become dangerous “secrets” when we try to handle them without letting anyone else in to help us or share with them the issues we face.

2. Stop assuming it’s just you. One of the ways Satan keeps us discouraged and isolated is by making us believe we are the only one who has a secret struggle. But it’s not true. “Don’t assume because you perceive perfection there is not hidden pain. Many people have smiled through struggle and laughed through loss. We are all creatively coping in some way.” - God Knows

3. Address the shame cycle. Ask yourself these questions to see if shame from living with secrecy has affected you: 1. Do I avoid people to ensure I won’t have an uncomfortable (or probing) conversation? 2. Do I feel distant from God? 3. Do I feel negatively toward myself for something I am doing that other people don’t know about? (Remember: Just because something is packaged prettier doesn’t mean it’s not a secret struggle that’s keeping you in a negative train of thought.)


4. Accept help. We often want to push people away because we feel like our struggles will burden them. As I write in God Knows, “Sometimes it’s hard to let people love you when you think you’re loving them harder by refusing their help. But this isn’t a love contest.”

The truth is, everyone has something only God knows about.

Someone reading is struggling in secret. To make ends meet. With a worried heart. Carrying someone else’s issue that has now become yours. Things are barren and feel desperate. Maybe that someone is you.

I want you to know that God will not leave you, He knows the depth of your burden and overwhelm, and you can trust Him to have more for you.

Written for Devotionals Daily by Lisa Whittle, author of God Knows.

1 Peter 5:6-8

6 Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, 7 casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.

Heb 13:5-6

"I will never leave you nor forsake you."

I stated before that we were meant to live in community, marriage, family, neighbors, friends, coworkers, etc. In this context we are to find believers and followers of Jesus that can and will help bear our burdens. We should give them to God first but get earthly help as well to be blessed and bless others through common sharing of life’s trouble.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 18, 2023

Notes of Faith July 18, 2023

Prayer for Relationships

A troublemaker plants seeds of strife; gossip separates the best of friends. — Proverbs 16:28 NLT

Great God, you are so good to me. Healthy friendships are a gift from You, but the Enemy wants to separate those friendships with strife.

I ask that You sow peace in my relationships. When gossip tries to divide us, give me discernment to see the Enemy’s trick and to stop it with a gentle response. I want always to speak of my friends as the treasures they are and never tear them down.

Help my friends recognize the severity of gossip in their lives. I ask that You protect our friendships from unkind words, rumors, and malicious talk. Let the words of our mouths glorify and honor You.

Thank You for the kind words my friends say to me. They build me up with their compassion and encouragement, which I know is a gift from You.

In Christ’s name, amen.

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I want to be like Jesus and be slow to anger, especially with my friends and those I love the most.

A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel. — Proverbs 15:18 NIV

Dear heavenly Father, Jesus is the ultimate example of peace in the face of persecution. He didn’t defend Himself or grow angry when tormented on the cross. Rather, He asked forgiveness for His persecutors.

Help me to do the same. Instead of being angry, I want to follow the example of Jesus and pray for those who injure me.

I want to be like Jesus and be slow to anger, especially with my friends and those I love the most.

Some of my friends struggle with their tempers. Help them hold their tongues when they’re tempted to give a hurtful response. Help them remember Jesus’ example.

Thank You for giving us the ability to choose peace over anger. Thank you that we don’t have to give in to our natural desires.

I’m so grateful my friends understand me and love me even when I’m not at my best.

In the name of Your precious Son, amen.

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“Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,” for we are members of one another. “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil. — Ephesians 4:25–27

Father God, I praise You because You are honest. You cannot lie, and You despise lying tongues.

I want to follow Your example in this. I want to speak the truth always and in love. Help me resist the urge to lie when I’m caught doing something I shouldn’t do. And I don’t want to be guilty of lies of omission or lies to protect feelings.

When my friends are tempted to lie, give them the courage to be honest. Please guard our friendships, and let them always be built on truth, because we love one another and understand that lying never helps the situation.

Thank You for being an example of truth.

I am so grateful I have friends who aren’t afraid to tell me the truth.

In Your Son’s name, amen.

Excerpted with permission from Start with Prayer by Max Lucado, copyright Max Lucado.

We were created to exist in community…husband and wife, with children (family), with neighbors, community, a social order. God planned for us to live in a blessed community. Let us give Him praise and be grateful for the relationships that He brings us. Work hard to nurture those relationships, be a blessing and be blessed through them. Above all, work on your intimate relationship with God who loves you more than any other!

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 17, 2023

Notes of Faith July 17, 2023

Goats in Sheep’s Clothing

Why We Warn the Lukewarm

Article by Greg Morse

Staff writer, desiringGod.org

Mr. A is a member of the church. He was baptized years ago, still professes faith, and shows up routinely on Sundays. While he isn’t known for possessing much love to Jesus, or much zeal for spiritual things, neither is he known for being an open sinner. He is nice enough. He serves from time to time and doesn’t avoid getting into a conversation on his way out the door. He struggles with his set of sins, but who doesn’t?

While he sits in the same pew every week, truthfully, not many would notice if he left. He is not exactly a model of a hearty believer. But he is a member still — different members, different gifts.

Is he growing in holiness? You can’t really tell. Is he increasing in his knowledge of Christ? Hard to say. Does he really love the brethren? Well, what exactly do you mean? Does he warm at the love of God or delight in the Lord Jesus? Perhaps deep down. You’ve attended church with this person, maybe overlapped in a small group with him, but for all of that, his heart for his Lord hasn’t surfaced much. He blends into the pew from Sunday to Sunday like a fake plant in the corner of the sanctuary.

The years pass. He raises a family. His daughter sings in the children’s choir. His wife occasionally cooks meals for church gatherings. He never commits grave immorality. He never promotes heresy. He never stops coming. His gravestone eventually reads, “Here lies Mr. A., Christian husband, father, churchman.”

Over the years, I have been gravely concerned for this type of man — drawn to this man — probably because I used to be like this man.

Church for the Unconverted

To put it plainly: I believe that men like Mr. A are far too comfortable in too many churches as they sleep themselves into hell. Nominalism — or if you want the Bible word, lukewarmness — is perilous to the professor’s soul and is too often ignored in churches. Consider some words from Jesus.

Salt is good, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is of no use either for the soil or for the manure pile. It is thrown away. (Luke 14:34–35)

A man had a fig tree planted in his vineyard, and he came seeking fruit on it and found none. And he said to the vinedresser, “Look, for three years now I have come seeking fruit on this fig tree, and I find none. Cut it down. Why should it use up the ground?” (Luke 13:6–7)

I know your works. You have the reputation of being alive, but you are dead. (Revelation 3:1)

Because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth. (Revelation 3:16)

Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. (Matthew 10:37)

A saltless professor thrown away into the manure pile. A fruitless fig tree cut down. An empty reputation exposed. A lukewarm sip of water spit out of God’s mouth. A tepid lover unwelcomed as Christ’s disciple. I tremble at how many men and women follow the gentle slope of religious duty, and even church membership, peacefully into hell. These spiritual centaurs bore some resemblance to Christian people up top, but had their hooves dug into the love of this world beneath.

Propping Professors

What has come to bother me — and what I believe should bother you — is that too many seem to have no category for lifeless professors in churches. It seems to seldom occur, even to some doctors of divinity, that church directories can hold names of the dead. And while no local church will be constituted perfectly of the regenerate, my issue is with unscriptural vitals being taken for life, allowing for the broad way to become a highway through local churches.

“The longer I live, and the closer I come to heaven,” John Piper writes, “the more troubling it is that so many people identify as Christians but give so little evidence of being truly Christian.” This is my heart. “My sadness grows,” he continues, “when I consider that there may be millions of people who think themselves as heaven-bound, hell-escaping Christians who are not — people for whom Christ is at the margins of their thoughts and affections, not at the transforming center. People who will hear Jesus say at the judgment, ‘I never knew you; depart from me’ (Matthew 7:23)” (What Is Saving Faith?, 29).

“How many do we have in our churches who, year by year, give little to no evidence of being true Christians?”

How many do we have in our churches who, year by year, give little to no evidence of being true Christians? How many do we call “brother” or “sister” who seat Christ in the nosebleeds of their thoughts and affections? Do we notice them? Oh to consider that so many will have perished — not despite the church’s questions, pleadings, and warnings, but happily in the midst of a true local church with good men preaching. They strayed to hell unbothered by surrounding saints and ultimately unknown and unpursued by their pastors.

Lukewarmness is to be repented of in our churches, not reinforced through laxity. The great and first command — our born-again privilege — is to love the Lord our God with our whole being (Matthew 22:37–38; Deuteronomy 30:6). If we cast off this command in favor of our own standards for the Christian life, if we prop up the religious lost, insinuating that head knowledge and regular attendance make a Christian, local churches can become — of all places — the most comfortable for the spiritually dead.

Dangerous Imbalance

What can perpetuate this vicious cycle? What can contribute to nominal members feeling so at ease in Christian communities? I think one tendency Protestant churches can fall into is to overstate justification and understate regeneration.

Overstating Justification

When everything becomes about justification, when the story stops at what Christ has done outside of us in his substitutionary death, we can lean toward lax standards for what constitutes membership and discipleship. Everything can become reduced to cognitive assent — intellectually agreeing with what he accomplished — and we short-circuit the emphasis on the “obedience of faith,” bearing fruit in keeping with repentance, or “faith working through love” (Romans 1:6; Matthew 3:8; Galatians 5:6) — in other words, the life and actions of living faith.

“What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him?” (James 2:14). Of course it can — salvation is by faith alone. What do you mean? too many answer. And in so doing, we countenance a dead faith — one that attends and says it believes certain creeds, avoids public scandal, but does not joyfully, fearfully “work out your own salvation” or “strive . . . for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord” (Philippians 2:12; Hebrews 12:14) — all flowing from a true justification in Christ alone through faith alone.

A lifeless, pulseless, passionless religious life evidenced in routine attendance — is this the power of God for salvation? Our confessions answer plainly:

Faith, thus receiving and resting on Christ and his righteousness, is the alone instrument of justification: yet is it not alone in the person justified, but is ever accompanied with all other saving graces, and is no dead faith, but worketh by love. (Westminster Confession of Faith, 11.2)

Understating Regeneration

“Truly, truly I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3). Jesus turned Nicodemus’s world upside down by teaching that, in this new-covenant age, no one will be in heaven who has not born again on earth.

So it is. A heart-change, a love-change, a creature-change must happen if we will be in heaven — yet how many know the power of this change? Most members in our churches, we expect, but we must never lose sight that being born again proves itself over time with unmistakable fruit. Such is bound up in the new-covenant promise given to Ezekiel:

I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you shall be clean from all your uncleannesses, and from all your idols I will cleanse you. And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules. (Ezekiel 36:25–27)

“Being born again proves itself by unmistakable fruits of salvation over time.”

God will give us a new heart, a new love, a new allegiance in this new birth. Therefore, John can make such black-and-white statements in his first epistle concerning how our assurance as Christians directly relates to our lives of obedience and love for other believers (1 John 2:29; 3:9–10; 4:7; 5:1, 18).

“Once a member, always a member” is more tidy, more clean, and more convenient for already-too-busy pastors, but it is also more tenuous — for them and us — in view of that great Day when we will stand with them and “give an account” for their souls (Hebrews 13:17).

Many Will Say on That Day

Many is one of the most comforting and one of the scariest words to proceed from Jesus’s lips in the Gospels. Here it is the scariest:

Not everyone who says to me, “Lord, Lord,” will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, “Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?” And then will I declare to them, “I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.” (Matthew 7:21–23)

Strive to enter through the narrow door. For many, I tell you, will seek to enter and will not be able. (Luke 13:24)

Many lost men and women will go to that great judgment day believing themselves to be saved. They went to church; they did works in his name; they called him Lord. Let that sit with you a moment. Can anything be more miserable, more shocking, more pitiable than one of our people — or us — gasping in utter unbelief as angels drag them away? “But Lord, you are my Lord! I am one of your followers!”

Oh, before it is too late, resolve now, as far as it goes with you, not to let your people sleep their way into judgment. Will we not tell them to watch, to stay alert? Will we not call them to that discipleship found in the New Testament? Will we not be watchful over their souls in earnest prayer? Will we not encourage and exhort and rebuke and blow the trumpet of God’s word in their ears? Will they hear “I never knew you” from the Lord in heaven after we, their pastors and fellow members, did not know them on earth? Will we be their abettors unaware?

O Lord, for our sake and theirs, may it not be.

God must be the focus of our lives on earth. It is He that gives us life and commands us to love Him and others that He has created. All other things of this life will flow from those two commands. Love God, have an intimate relationship with God, obey His commands for our life. Love our neighbor. That is everyone else on planet earth. Love those that God has created and given life.

Do not go through this life working to earn a vacation and repeating the same dull life experiences without a spiritual life, a daily conversation with the God who created you and wants to walk daily with you. Draw first in your day to the glory of God, be refreshed and strengthened and prepared for the day ahead. Do not be a goat, thinking you are on your way to heaven and are not.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 16, 2023

Notes of Faith July 16, 2023

Boundaries: Guard Your Heart

We were created to be who God designed us to be, to love who God calls us to love, and to accomplish what God tasks us to accomplish. That is the secret to a fruitful and fulfilled life, with great relationships and a deep sense of purpose.

Unfortunately, we all encounter obstacles which can distract, or even paralyze us, from that great life God had planned. Some of the most difficult obstacles are the inability to say no, confront, and establish consequences in relationships when you need to. There are a number of examples of this sort of problem:

A child who doesn’t do homework or clean up after herself

A husband who controls his marriage by getting angry when his wife disagrees with him

An employee who is defensive about poor performance, and becomes “unconfrontable”

A boss who intimidates her employees by being critical of those who speak up about problems in the organization

These obstacles can sap your energy, get you off track, discourage you and even damage you emotionally. Most of us know how this can feel, and it’s not a good place to be.

The Bible presents a solution, which, in a word, is called boundaries.

Boundaries are your personal property line, where you set out where you end, and where the other person begins.

They help you own your time, energy, resources and money, and decide for yourself what to do with them. Boundaries help you determine when to say yes, and how to say no. Yet so many people feel guilty about having boundaries, or that the Bible teaches us not to have them.

Proverbs 4:23 is a wonderful verse which teaches on a very rich level, how boundaries can help us. Let’s take a look:

Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

This is a great encapsulation of the why and the how of boundaries. Here is the breakdown of the passage, not in the exact word order, but in a linear flow for you:

Your heart: Your heart is the core of who you are, your insides, literally the “inner person.” The word refers to all of the contents that reside in your brain. That includes your values, thoughts, opinions, feelings and decisions. If you have ever experienced “losing heart”, when you become discouraged or demotivated, it is often because you either allowed someone to take your time or energy, or because you allowed someone inside your heart who had no business being there, and the result was that there was hurt and damage.

Everything you do flows from it: Why is your heart so important? Because your entire life’s path depends on how healthy your heart is. All of your actions, how you treat yourself, how you engage in your relationships with God and others, and the impact you make on the world, is directed by what happens in your heart. For example, leaders who reflect on their careers will often look back on matters of the heart as being tipping points that changed the trajectory of their lives. Think of it from the health perspective. If you take care of your body and eat right, exercise and sleep well, you are likely to have a healthy body for a long time. But neglecting or abusing your body can easily result in sickness and dysfunction. Your heart is simply critical to living life in God’s way.

Guard: literally, to protect. In other words, watch over your inner self, and keep it from harm. I love the fact that God put this specific word in this specific place! That is the role of a boundary, whether it be the word “no”, a difficult confrontation or some limit you need to set in a relationship. So often, people think that saying “no” and taking responsibility to guard yourself is selfish and “all about me.” But we have been entrusted with the task of guarding this most precious gift of God. I often tell people to change the “S” from Selfishness to Stewardship, for that is how the Bible teaches it.

Above all else: All 30,000 verses of the Bible are, by definition, from God. So when you see the words “above all else” in the Scriptures, that’s a highlighter, meaning, “pay attention, this is a priority.” So often we think that saying no to preserve our hearts should be unimportant. But God instructs us that this is a critical and life-preserving stance to take.

This is just one of so many passages that teach us that clear and loving boundaries are a tool for good in our lives. Pray over this verse and ask God to guide you to the right boundary that you need to establish today. For more information on the topic, read the Updated and Expanded edition of Boundaries by me and Dr. Henry Cloud. God bless you.

Written for Devotionals Daily by Dr. John Townsend, author with Henry Cloud of Boundaries.

Gen 6:5

5 Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great on the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.

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Jer 17:9

9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know

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Jer 4:14

wash the evil from your heart and be saved.

How long will you harbor wicked thoughts?

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Ps 141:4

Let not my heart be drawn to what is evil,

to take part in wicked deeds

with men who are evildoers;

let me not eat of their delicacies.

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Ps 101:4

4 A perverse heart shall be far from me;

I will know nothing of evil.

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Guarding our hearts should be of greatest importance. It is too easy to stray from the straight and narrow path listening to the lies and deceit of Satan, who tries to keep us from a holy and righteous relationship with God. If you are a believer and follower of Jesus, you are a new creation and God has given you a new heart, one that loves God and the things of God. Guard your heart!

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith July 15, 2023

Notes of Faith July 15, 2023

Struggle and Chaos

Struggle

He went a little farther and fell on His face, and prayed, saying, “O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.” — Matthew 26:39

We all struggle. But did you ever think that perhaps God may be using your struggles to change you? To shape you? Even to heal you? For two years I have been asking God to remove the pain in my writing hand. Even as I write these words, I feel stiffness in my thumb, fingers, forearm, and shoulder. The doctors chalk it up to thirty-plus books written in longhand. Over the decades the repeated motion has restricted my movement, rendering the simplest of tasks — writing a sentence on a sheet of paper — difficult.

So I do my part. I stretch my fingers. A therapist massages the muscles. I avoid the golf course. I even go to yoga! But most of all I pray. Better said, I argue.

Shouldn’t God heal my hand? My pen is my tool. Writing is my assignment. So far He hasn’t healed me.

Or has He? These days I pray more as I write. Not eloquent prayers but honest ones. Lord, I need help… Father, my hand is stiff. The discomfort humbles me. I’m not Max, the author. I am Max, the guy whose hand is wearing out. I want God to heal my hand. Thus far He has used my hand to heal my heart.

So that thing you’re struggling with, that you’ve prayed about over and over and over again… could it be that God is using it to heal your heart?

~Before Amen

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Chaos

Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you. — 1 Peter 5:7 NIV

Imagine this scene. It is breakfast time, and the family is in chaos. The daughters are complaining about their brother who took too much time in the bathroom. As a result their hair isn’t brushed and makeup isn’t applied. Mom is doing her best to manage the conflict, but she woke up with a headache and a long list of things to do. The clock is ticking like a time bomb, ever closer to that moment when, boom! It’s time to go. Dad stops at the kitchen entryway and surveys the pandemonium. He weighs his options:

Command everyone to shape up and behave.

Berate his son for dominating the bathroom, his daughters for poor planning, and his wife for not taking control.

Sneak out before anyone notices.

Or he could turn to God with a simple prayer: Father, You are good. I need help. Reduce the frenzy in my house, please. Will the prayer change everything? It may. Or it may take another prayer, or two, or ten. But at least the problem will be in the hands of the One who can solve it.

~ Before Amen

Excerpted from God Is With You Every Day by Max Lucado, copyright Max Lucado.

We don’t like to think it possible that God uses even the negative things to change, motivate, and transform us. But He does. God is good all the time and uses all things for His glory. How He works out the details I still don’t understand but I know He does, for you and for me.

Praise God from whom all blessings flow…in all circumstances!

Pastor Dale