Notes of Faith November 2, 2023

Notes of Faith November 2, 2023

What is Advent?

The true light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world.

— John 1:9

There are certain signals that reveal Christmas is on its way. Coffee shops add peppermint mochas to their seasonal menus. We start making lists of gifts to buy, and retailers set up elaborate displays to entice us to buy even more. With so much clamoring for our attention, sometimes it’s a challenge to remember the true reason for the season of Advent.

The word Advent comes from the Latin word adventus, which means “coming” or “arrival.” It’s a season of preparation, not for extra expenses or family gatherings, but to remember the Christ child who came to live among us to secure our redemption.

It is a time to pause and cherish God’s most precious gift to us.

Advent is also the anticipation of Christ’s return at the Second Coming. When we celebrate the birth of our Savior, we’re honoring the sacrifice He made for us too. Gathering around the manger is only part of it. We also need to journey to the foot of the cross.

So while you might still get swept up in all the hurried activity of the Christmas season, be intentional this year to take time during Advent to prepare your heart. Remember that God laid aside His glory to become human because of His great love for you, and He will also return one day to restore glory to His people. There are few truths in this world that can be more wonderful, more exciting than this.

What kinds of things mark the start of the Christmas season for you?

Is celebrating Advent part of your traditions? If not, how can you make it a special part this year?

Do you tend to feel harried and overwhelmed this time of year? If so, how can you carve out some time for reflection to prepare your heart?

Advent is a time to pause and cherish God’s most precious gift to us.

A Season of Hope

I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in Him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit. — Romans 15:13 NLT

Advent begins four Sundays before Christmas, but even without a calendar it’s easy to know when it starts because of the Advent wreath Many churches have a large, beautiful wreath near the front of the altar, and when the season of Advent begins, the first candle in the Advent wreath is lit.

The first Advent candle, known as the Prophet’s Candle, represents hope. Throughout the Old Testament many prophets, especially Isaiah, waited in hope for the Messiah they knew would come. None of them knew when God’s promise of a Savior would be fulfilled, but they kept trusting in God, because He is always faithful.

We all have things we’re hoping for. Some of them we can write on our Christmas list, and maybe they’ll appear under the tree. Other things we bring to God in prayer. But sometimes it’s hard to stay hopeful when the thing you’re waiting for isn’t happening.

As we begin this season of Advent, let’s embrace this time of hope. No matter what our circumstances look like, we know — just like the prophets knew — that God is faithful and good. He loves us, and He wants to draw us closer to Him. We can let go of our worry, stress, and envy, because our hope is in Him.

What are you hoping for this holiday season?

Can you think of a time when something you’d been hoping for finally happened?

What do you do when you feel your hope start to waver?

Excerpted from The Advent Project copyright Zondervan.

I love celebrating the birth of Christ. I love looking forward to His return. But my looking forward to His return is in His coming in the clouds and calling His bride to come and join Him, the believing dead raised in resurrected glory and those that are alive, transformed and joining them to meet the Lord in the air, and thus we shall always be with the Lord. I pray that you are looking forward to His return also. Can’t wait to share a meal with you in heaven!

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith November 1, 2023

Notes of Faith November 1, 2023

Jesus is Waiting for You

I’ve always loved the worship that the Christmas season brings. There’s something special about the promises of God that seem closer, more palpable, and ready to come to life as we journey towards the birth of our King Jesus. For Shelley and me, it doesn’t get much better than decorating a freshly cut Christmas tree, spending time with family and close friends, and taking part in the traditions that weave joy and celebration throughout these wintery days.

As idealistic as that may sound, let’s be honest — Christmas, and consequently, the season of Advent — isn’t always the most peaceful time of year. In fact, you might quickly find yourself buried under the mountain of gifts, glitter, holiday parties, cookie swaps, and a whole host of unmet or underwhelmed expectations. That’s not even to mention that for many families, Christmas isn’t actually a season of celebration, but a stark reminder of painful memories, loss, and disappointment.

If that’s you, I understand — Shelley and I have walked together through hard seasons. Ten years ago when I was writing an Advent devotional, Waiting Here for You, I felt the Lord encouraging me to write with a specific family in mind — a family that was going into the Christmas season under the diagnosis of cancer. So, I did… only to come to find out a few weeks later, right after Thanksgiving, that Shelley’s dad, who is a hero to me, was given a very serious cancer diagnosis. The words and devotions from Waiting Here for You became a lifeline for our family during that Advent season and in the many since that diagnosis.

Shelley’s dad fought valiantly against his cancer, but after a long fight, he went to Heaven earlier this year. So this will be our first Advent season without him, and to say it will be hard is a massive understatement. I share this because I want you to know that I understand that Advent isn’t always all bows and baking, even though all the current popular Christmas movies would try to make you believe it is.

Yes, Advent can be a wonderful season of celebration. But it can also be full of confusion. Of desperate need. Of waiting for God to come through.

Whether your Advent this year bears the arrival of peace and joy or the arrival of sorrow and sadness, Jesus is not only aware of your story — He’s with you in your gladness or your waiting. He never leaves you to navigate this season alone.

The word Advent means arrival — meant to reference the arrival of Jesus onto planet earth all those years ago. While this should give us confidence, the rush and crush of the Christmas season can convince us to think of Jesus’ arrival in that Bethlehem manager as just another act of history, old news. You might even find yourself thinking, “Jesus showed up then, and that’s all good and well, but I’m waiting on Him to show up now. To answer me. To prove that He cares today.”

I hear that. But here’s the great news that can change everything for you: Jesus’ arrival wasn’t just another day in history. It was the day in history. When Jesus arrived on earth, He emphatically pronounced that He wanted to have permanent proximity to you, and you to Him. He proved the promises of God to not only be true, but to be everlastingly possible through His life, death, and resurrection.

That’s why if you currently find yourself waiting on God, it’s not a waste of time. He is working while you wait because He is closer than you realize. You don’t have to hope that He will draw near to you. He’s already arrived. You don’t have to wonder if He cares for you. He came down from Heaven so that you would never again have to fear that He is uninvolved, uninformed, or unwilling to step into your story.

True, your tensions may not immediately evaporate. That diagnosis your loved one received might not improve tomorrow. Your heartache may not mend with a few carols or cups of eggnog. But here’s what you can take confidence in —

Jesus has arrived, He is with you today, and He is at work in your life. That’s why you can worship Him.

Just like Shelley’s father, there is a day coming for every Believer where we will arrive with Jesus. Where every waiting and every longing will be fulfilled immediately by His glorious grace and love. That wholeness and victory is a future reality in your story. But it may not be the headline for today.

Today, you may keep waiting on your earthly circumstances. But Jesus is waiting with you. And there are people all around you who need to know that there was a Baby, born in a messy manger a few thousand years ago, who has never failed and never faded. Who keeps every promise and stays steadfast in every situation. A Savior who knows what it means to be human, who draws near in every hardship, and who is working on your behalf in every way this Christmas Season.

Written for Faith.Gateway by Louie Giglio, author of Waiting Here for You.

If the stores can start Christmas shopping before Thanksgiving, then a good spiritual reflection should be good also! I am grateful in any season for the life God has given me. Indeed, there have been struggles, but God has always been in the midst of them, providing, caring, guiding, strengthening hope. If you have a need today and would like me to join in prayer for you, please send a message, an email, phone call, contact me any way you can, and I will gladly raise up your need before the throne of grace. You are loved!

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith October 31, 2023

Notes of Faith October 31, 2023

If God Is Real, Why Is He So Hidden?

Along with the problem of evil, the problem of divine hiddenness has become one of the most prominent arguments for atheism. ~ Philosopher Travis Dumsday, “C. S. Lewis on the Problem of Divine Hiddenness,” International Journal for Philosophy of Religion

Interview with Kenneth Richard Samples, MA

Rocked by the suicide of his brother Frank, Kenneth Samples began to seek answers to deep questions. Frank had plummeted into despair after struggling with drug addiction and incarceration, and Ken started wondering, What do I have in my life that’s really meaningful?

His spiritual curiosity had already been piqued when his sister gave him a copy of Mere Christianity by C. S. Lewis. Later he had a vivid dream in which he encountered a Christlike figure with scars and bruises on his face. “When he spoke — I kid you not — it was like thunder,” Samples told me. This resulted in an insatiable urge to study the Bible and attend church.

He became a committed Christian and immediately gravitated toward apologetics. He earned an undergraduate degree in history from Concordia University and then a master’s degree in theological studies from Biola University.

After working alongside legendary countercult apologist Walter Martin, Samples now serves as senior research scholar for Reasons to Believe, a nonprofit that focuses on science and faith. For more than twenty years, he has taught at Biola and lectured at universities around the country. His books include Without a Doubt: Answering the 20 Toughest Faith Questions and Christianity Cross-Examined: Is It Rational, Relevant, and Good?

Seated at a desk and wearing his gray hair cut short, Samples spoke in a sincere tone with an even cadence, unruffled by questions that might challenge his faith. After all, there are virtually no objections to Christianity that he hasn’t addressed over his career.

God’s Silence through the Centuries

I began by referencing several theists through history who struggled with the apparent silence of God and yet didn’t abandon their faith. For example, the Hebrew psalmist cried out,

My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?... I cry out by day, but you do not answer, by night, but I find no rest.1

The prophet Isaiah wrote,

Truly You are a God who has been hiding Himself.2

“An important component of ancient Israel’s worship was the engagement of divine absence,” said Old Testament scholar Joel Burnett.3 He added that in ancient Israel, “the sense of divine absence [and the sorrow and suffering that goes along with it] is regarded as a normal part of human experience.”4 Nevertheless, observed Michael Rea of the University of Notre Dame, none of the biblical texts that wrestle with divine silence ever question the reality of God.5

I turned to Samples. “Why do you think that many theists have struggled with the so-called hiddenness of God and yet never jettisoned their belief in Him?” I asked.

“I would start by defining faith — it’s a confident trust in a reliable source,” he began. “That means faith is not trust in any source or every source, but we put our faith in something that’s reliable. By that definition, faith has a rational component to it.” He paused, then continued. “These individuals put their trust in the one true God, someone they determined to be reliable and trustworthy. It was a faith that made sense and was fully rational. Of course, as C. S. Lewis said, you have to feed your faith.6 I believe they did that and ended up building a robust and resilient faith that could withstand the times when they felt perplexed by the seeming absence of God.”

“How did they feed their faith?”

“Through regular prayer, the study of Scripture, being part of a faith community, for example. And when you invest in your faith that way, it can sustain you even during those times when God seems distant.

“Sometimes when I talk to people who have walked away from faith, I ask them about their prayer life and their connection to a church, and there isn’t anything there,” he added. “Without that firm foundation, a person’s faith can crumble during times when God seems particularly distant. I know in my own life that when God appears hidden, it’s often at a time when I’m at a spiritual low.”

A quote by Corrie ten Boom sprang to mind:

“When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don’t throw away your ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer.”7

Her faith remained intact despite her painful circumstances during World War II because she knew that God could ultimately be trusted.

When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don’t throw away your ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer. ~ Corrie ten Boom

“Put Your House in Order”

I gestured toward Samples. “What about you personally — have you ever felt exasperated because God didn’t make Himself more apparent?”

“Well, the answer is yes,” he said. “When I was forty-five years old, married with three children, I came home one day feeling sick. It turned out I had contracted a rare bacteria that resulted in a large lesion on my right lung and six brain abscess lesions. I remember the doctor telling me, ‘What you have has a mortality rate of 80 percent.’”

My mouth dropped open. “I had no idea.”

“Yeah, when the doctor gave me that percentage, it was like a cold breeze ran through my soul. I ended up going through a difficult period.”

“I can only imagine.”

“I remember being hospitalized and having lung surgery. Through it all, there certainly were times when God seemed present, and that was comforting. But then one night, my family and friends went home from the hospital and I couldn’t sleep. I thought, Lord, where are You? I’m in a tough spot.”

“Did the silence of God threaten your faith?”

“Not in a serious way. As I began to think more clearly, I started to fall back on some things I had learned through the years.”

“For instance?”

“I realized this experience of God’s silence didn’t invalidate the fact that I had encountered God before. And it certainly didn’t rule out the solid argumentation that I had discovered about God’s existence and the truth of Christianity. So, yeah, there were times when I thought, Lord, where are You? Admittedly, that can be scary. But when I fell back on the spiritual practices that I had nurtured through the years — prayer and worship, for example — the dark thoughts dissipated. Just reading the gospels raised my spirits.”

“Were you concerned you might die?”

“I remember the doctor saying to me, ‘Hey, put your house in order.’ I started by asking myself, What do I really believe about life after death? That prompted me to go through all of the evidence for the resurrection that I had researched through the years.”

“Was that helpful?”

“No question, it really buoyed me. I realized that the evidence was sound when I first came across it, it remained sound, and I trusted that it would continue to be sound into the future.”

“In the end, did this experience make you more sympathetic to people who wrestle with the silence of God?”

“Absolutely,” he replied. “I can relate to what they’re going through. And yet at the same time, can we really say that God has been hidden when the second person of the Trinity took on a human nature and entered into our world? I remember the theologian J. I. Packer saying that the incarnation is greater than anything in literature. I’ve found that just the practice of bringing that to mind has been an encouragement to me.”

Excerpted from Is God Real? by Lee Strobel, copyright Lee Strobel.

The questions of “Is God Real” and “What Happens When You Die” must be answered by each and every person. The faith that God has given me assures me that there is an eternal life, that we were created to be eternal beings. Sin or disobedience to God brought about the division of where one spends eternity. We all deserve hell and the Lake of Fire, but God in His love for mankind sent His Son to pay the price we each owe for sin. Those who believe in Jesus, His work on the cross, His coming again for those who love Him, will be taken to live in the presence of God forever. Those who do not believe that there is a God and His Son that came to redeem them must pay their debt of sin, eternally separated from the God that created them and alive suffering torment forever. Think clearly, examine the evidence and come to Jesus to receive forgiveness, redemption, salvation, and ultimate glory through the faith that He gives you to believe.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith October 30, 2023

Notes of Faith October 30, 2023

The Platform of Love

If you've ever had an In-N-Out burger, you know their dedication to serving really delicious fast food. This year is the 75th anniversary — 75 years of Double Doubles, shakes, and fries... Mmmm! Lynsi Snyder, the owner and President of In-N-Out shares their story in her new book The Ins-N-Outs of In-N-Out Burger.

He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation.”

— Mark 16:15

In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how He Himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ — Acts 20:35

Customers often notice Bible verses printed on In-N-Out products, and that practice has a history tied to my good memories about Uncle Rich.

Both Dad and Uncle Rich grew up with some faith in their home. As boys, my grandmother told them about God and taught them how to pray. When they were teens and young men, they wandered from their faith. But in the early 1980s, Rich reconnected with God in a much bigger way. He became an active member of Costa Mesa’s Calvary Chapel, led by Pastor Chuck Smith, and dedicated his life to Jesus. Rich didn’t claim to be perfect. But he finally found that the deep need in his heart could only be satisfied by Jesus and by finding his own identity in Him. I remember my uncle telling me once,

“I’m not always a good Christian, but I’m a Christian.”

In 1985, Rich began printing tiny references to Bible verses on In-N-Out paper goods. It was a way for him to express his faith, and he wanted to put that little touch of faith on our brand. In a 1990 episode of BTV, Rich explained, “I quietly did it a few years ago. I’m a Christian. For those who know me, they definitely know that I’m not perfect and neither is In-N-Out. We are trying to serve our communities and do a good job the best we can. I guess the reason [for the verses] is it’s my way of thanking God for helping In-N-Out so much. I took over In-N-Out when I was twenty-four years old, and for me it was kind of tough. I thank God that He helped me.”*

Love God and love other people.

To this day, Revelation 3:20 is discreetly printed on hamburger and cheeseburger bags. Nahum 1:7 is on the Double-Double wrappers. Proverbs 3:5 sits underneath milkshake cups, Isaiah 53 is on certain holiday cups, Isaiah 9:6 is on Christmas cups, and John 3:16 is underneath soda cups. That tradition continues to this day. After I became president, I added Proverbs 24:16 to our fry boats, Luke 6:35 to coffee cups, and John 13:34 to the hot cocoa cups... We never try to force our beliefs on anyone, and customers with any faith tradition, or none, are certainly welcome through our doors. We hire and promote associates and managers who don’t share our faith.

God loves all people, and so do we! My family simply wants our faith to take a meaningful place in everything our company does. The verses act as encouragements.

Always, the goal is to love God and to love other people, and we’ve learned the platform of love is huge.

The feedback we get about the Bible verses is almost always positive. Customers don’t always share our faith, but they appreciate that we’re honest about our own faith journey, and that we want it to be part of the integrity of our company. Many commend our efforts to reach out, care for people, and lead with love.

An awareness of the blessings God has given inspires generosity. I think that was Rich’s intention in 1991, when he began sending In-N-Out Cookout Trailers to the missions around Los Angeles to prepare meals for the unhoused. That’s how the In-N-Out Feed the Homeless Program began, as a quiet way of providing delicious meals for the less fortunate.

We currently serve people involved with the Los Angeles Mission, Ventura Rescue Mission, San Diego Rescue Mission, and Long Beach Mission. These initiatives fit beautifully with part three of our mission statement, which states our purpose to help “communities in our marketplace [become] stronger, safer, and better places to live.” We invite other people to serve alongside us too.

It’s better to give than to receive.

*Rich Snyder on BTV, In-N-Out Archives.

Excerpted from The Ins-N-Outs of In-N-Out Burger by Lynsi Snyder, copyright Lynsi Snyder.

After preparing this mornings Notes of Faith, I am hungry, how about you?

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith October 29, 2023

Notes of Faith October 29, 2023

Getting to the Root of the Problem

If I had an hour to solve a problem, I’d spend fifty-five minutes thinking about the problem and five minutes thinking about solutions. ~ Author unknown, but sometimes attributed to Albert Einstein

Sometimes it’s hard to pinpoint exactly what’s wrong. I mean, you know in a larger sense that your world has been turned upside-down, like pink koalas and purple kangaroos should be hopping outside your window, or like big, fat snowflakes should be falling and sticking to the sidewalk on a sweltering summer day.

Somehow, in the throes of trauma, the wildest upendings seem acceptable.

As if you’ve been expecting this theater of the absurd to roll into town. (After all, it was absurd that this hospital bed was now a fixture in the living room along with the strangers and syringes that accompanied it.) But when it really comes down to the minutest details, can you articulate why this loss hurts so deeply? I mean, what exactly is the problem?

Jesus knew how to cut through the marshmallowy fluff and reveal the real villain. To pluck the prize at the bottom of the Cracker Jack box. To tease out the splinter instead of just applying a Spiderman Band-Aid over that dark sliver in your thumb. Jesus drilled down to the heart of the matter by calling out the heart of the asker. Like a hot knife gliding through your best chilled cheesecake.

Enter the Pharisees, Scribes, and Sanhedrin. Let the ancient rendition of Truth or Dare begin, in the Gospel of Mark, chapter 7.

“We’ve got a problem here, Jesus. Your crew of misfits doesn’t wash their hands before they eat. They’re just pawing at the picnic — passing out loaves and fishes willy-nilly. We do have a rule about that, as you should know — ahem — that is, you should know if you really are a prophet.” (I mean, these Hebrew Mensa members traveled long, dusty miles from Jerusalem and that’s all they’ve got? That’s their best shot?)

Jesus brakes.

“Whoa. Hold on a minute. Aren’t you the ones who deny your mother and father support — won’t give them a mite — because your money is already cinched up in that ‘Devoted to God’ pouch? What law could be more devoted to God than ‘Honor your father and mother’? You trade the Word of God for your traditions. You trample God’s intentions. You say that the problem is handwashing. I say you need a heart-washing.”

For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. — Matthew 12:34

That’s what you call exactly the problem.

And the followers of Jesus were not immune to His laser focus.

The earliest teachings of this unorthodox Galilean are exactly that — unorthodox — and feature Him excavating the root problems of surface sins.

Jesus’ take on the old laws confounded His listeners. Consider these lessons from Matthew 5:

It’s not just that murder is wrong. It’s that unresolved anger toward your brother or sister is wrong. (vv. 21–22)

It’s not just adultery. It’s lust. You know how you looked at that neighbor’s wife? Yep. That one. (vv. 27–30)

Yes. It’s divorce all right. But more than that, underneath divorce, it’s like your hardened heart forces a wife into adultery in future relationships. It’s condemning her. Compromising her. Casting her aside as collateral damage. (vv. 31–32)

It’s not just revenge. It’s stinginess. (vv. 38–40)

Time and again, He calls out the problem underneath the problem.

My friend understood that well. Sitting across from the always elegant and eternally wise eighty-two-year-old grande dame, I spilled my guts. Florence Littauer, an accomplished author who had ministered to women for four decades, owned an aura reminiscent of the tulle-wrapped, very pink, and very glittery Glinda, Oz’s famed Good Witch of the North. And I, a trembling Munchkin, was counting on her kindness. The imaginary wand she waved would undoubtedly reflect that kindness, but I was still nervous. Although I had known her for years (or perhaps because I had known her for years), I suspected an edict was forthcoming.

Florence listened, speared the last grape in her chicken salad, dabbed the corners of her mouth oh so delicately, and with her index finger wagging, distinctly opined, “Your problem is, you think you have no value apart from that man.”

Ouch. There it was. That was it. Bull’s-eye.

You feel worthless.

More specifically, worthless without him, a phrase that fits as perfectly as your best little black dress.

That’s not a match for your particular situation, you say?

You’re probably right. It may not be. Perhaps our losses don’t resemble each other’s in the least little bit. But see if completing this sentence with your words offers clarity. Imagine Florence speaking to you. (Side note: it’s helpful to throw in that finger-wagging thing too.)

“You think you have no value apart from _____________.”

That job? That bank account? That relationship? The success of that superstar child? That home? That car? That title? Those dusty trophies lined up against the window ledge? That perfectly beating heart that pumped you through two elite marathons? Those long-awaited and longed-for Louboutin shoes?

Recalibrating your worth when you lose something temporal you’ve attached it to proves debilitating. And it doesn’t really matter which temporal thing becomes the object of your devotion. All will fail because all are, by definition, fleeting.

Working in a local “stone soup” homeless shelter, I recall a day I manned the clothing trailer. I struck up a conversation with a chatty middle-aged client, as we called the visitors, who took his time poring over the donated jackets hanging on the rack. He pulled out a rather natty plaid coat, propped it up for me to see, and announced, “I wore one like this when I was somebody.” My soul tore a little for him as I helped him into the sleeves and reflected on the lesson he was teaching me at that very moment, as I was still stuck searching for that old relationship that I’d worn when I was somebody. Neither of our garments fit.

These spiritual misappropriations and misplaced self-assessments in light of loss happen in all stratas of society — rich or impoverished, privileged or marginalized. I think the marginalized just may be more honest about it. Hence, natty-plaid-coat-man with the easy confession rolling off his tongue, unknowingly calling out the got-it-all-together volunteer hiding her spiritual snags behind a laminated-lanyard ID tag and rows of hand-me-down coats stuffed into a double-wide.

The movie scene running through my mind cuts to Jesus gathering the children to Him, deliberately corralling the littlest littles and placing them center stage while the disciples, clueless, strut around in the wings, jockeying for position and elbowing each other out of the way, so as to avoid tripping over their extra-long egos.

Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven. — Matthew 18:3

Well played, Jesus.

The upside-down Kingdom of this tough-but-tender Rabbi never fails to flip social structures on their haughty heads.

Excerpted from I Don’t Know Who I Am Anymore by Carole Holiday, copyright Carole Holiday.

Jesus did turn the world upside down. Man has placed himself at the center of the world, trying to take the place that only God can fill. When man wakes up and bathes in the truth of who Jesus is and what He has done, there must be an awakening, a focus on truth and reality of the problem in life. It is a focus on self instead of God. Let us draw near to the throne of grace and find the help and grace that we all need!

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith October 28, 2023

Notes of Faith October 28, 2023

Prayer for Healing

So Moses cried out to the Lord, saying, “Please heal her, O God, I pray!”

— Numbers 12:13

Miriam had dared to speak ill of Moses. But Moses was not only her brother, he was a prophet of the Lord. God took this offense so seriously that He caused Miriam to be covered in leprosy. It certainly wasn’t always the case, but in this instance her illness was a direct result of her sinful actions.

Moses’ immediate reaction was to cry out to God on her behalf.

He prayed that Miriam would be healed of her affliction Moses expressed such humility in not only forgiving the original offense, but also pleading for the consequences of that offense to be removed from her.

Let’s pray for the healing of those around us.

How many of us have seen another individual dealing with the unpleasant ramifications of his or her behavior and failed to feel any compassion?

Perhaps we thought to ourselves, “Well, that’s what he gets,” or some such sentiment. Maybe we even fail to pray for our own healing because we feel that we deserve whatever it is that has happened to us.

There are two things that make all the difference when it comes to a seemingly undeserved healing. First, God is a merciful God, and His mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:23).

Second, prayer is a powerful thing. The prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much good (James 5:16). Let’s pray for the healing of those around us.

God of mercy, I pray for those around me, that they would know Your peace, healing, and love.

Excerpted from 100 Favorite Bible Prayers by Stacy Edwards, copyright Thomas Nelson.

We have several in our church family with serious illness, and many that could benefit from prayer and healing from a gracious and merciful God! You, too, may need prayer. Whether your need is repentance and forgiveness, or specific healing… I would love to hear from you and pray for you to our loving and merciful God. Join me in praying for others!

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith October 27, 2023

Notes of Faith October 27, 2023

No Comparison

Sovereign God,

Help me to lead the life that You have assigned to me — and to be content. I need to beware of comparing my situation with someone else’s, feeling dissatisfied because of the comparison. I realize it’s also hurtful to compare my current circumstances with how things used to be or with fantasies that bear little resemblance to reality. Instead, I must make every effort to accept as my calling the life You have assigned to me. This perspective takes the sting out of painful, difficult circumstances. If You have called me to a situation, I know You’ll give me everything I need to endure it — and even to find some Joy in the midst of it.

Please train my mind to trust Your sovereign ways with me — bowing before Your mysterious, infinite intelligence. I need to search for You in the details of my day, all the while looking expectantly for good to emerge from trouble. I’m learning to accept things the way they are, without losing hope for a better future. And I rejoice in the hope of Heaven, knowing that indescribably joyful Life is my ultimate calling!

In Your supremely wise Name, Jesus, Amen

Let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him. — 1 Corinthians 7:17 ESV

I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation. — Philippians 4:12

Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable his judgments, and his paths beyond tracing out! “Who has known the mind of the Lord? Or who has been his counselor?” — Romans 11:33–34

Help me remember that the difficulty of my circumstances is not a mistake.

Beloved Jesus,

Your Word tells me to sing to You because You have dealt bountifully with me. I confess that sometimes singing praises is the last thing I feel like doing, but that’s when I need it the most. You have indeed dealt bountifully with me — even when it doesn’t seem that way. I’ve been on an uphill journey with You, and I’m growing weary. I yearn for some easy days, for a path that is not so steep. But I realize it is the strenuous climbs that take me ever upward — closer and closer to the summit.

Help me remember that the difficulty of my circumstances is not a mistake. It’s a matter of Your sovereign will and — to some extent — my own goals. I desire to live close to You and to grow more fully into the one You created me to be. Pursuing these goals has put me on an adventurous trail where difficulties and dangers abound.

Sometimes I compare my life-path with those of people whose lives seem easier than mine. But I don’t fully comprehend the problems they face, nor do I know what the future holds for them. Instead of comparing my circumstances with those of others, I need to turn to You and listen as You instruct me, “You follow Me!”

In Your bountiful Name, Amen

I will sing to the Lord, because He has dealt bountifully with me.

— Psalm 13:6 NKJV

It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect... He enables me to stand on the heights. — 2 Samuel 22:33–34

Jesus said to him, “If I want him to remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow Me!” — John 21:22 NASB

Excerpted from Jesus Listens Notetaking by Sarah Young, copyright Sarah Young.

Living life daily believing God has prepared every circumstance and experience for you will allow you to live in peace and security. Thinking about what ifs and whys only causes pain, anxiety, and suffering that need not be. Don’t worry, be happy, is not bad counseling if understood from the truth of God. Live your life in expectation of pleasing God and being blessed by God. Just like the apostle Peter, we are to follow Jesus and not compare ourselves to the circumstances of others.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith October 26, 2023

Notes of Faith October 26, 2023

Pillar of Fire and Cloud of Smoke

EXODUS 13 / JOHN 8:12–30

Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows Me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” — John 8:12

Do you remember traveling on a road trip before using a map app on your phone?

If you can, there’s a high possibility you remember the days of printing turn-by-turn directions from MapQuest.com. Or before that, buying a printed road map or atlas! Oh, how far we’ve come!

Getting lost, missing exits, getting turned around... the confusion can leave us feeling so vulnerable.

It’s incredibly dysregulating and sometimes downright frightening to be lost. The Israelites most definitely felt this vulnerability and anxiety when they left Egypt. Yes, they were leaving the devastating hardships of Egypt, but every step took them deeper into the unknown. And the unknown can be a frightening place to willingly walk into.

God... where am I supposed to be going?

From the start of the Israelites’ exit from Egypt, God kept His promise not just to lead His people, but to be with them every step of the way.

Read Exodus 13:17–18a. Take note of the words in verse 18a, especially

But God led the people around by the way of the wilderness toward the Red Sea.

How does it make you feel, reading that God intentionally led the Israelites into the wilderness?

It’s hard to understand why God would intentionally take the Israelites through such a desolate place like the wilderness. Maybe today you find yourself questioning God in a place you find yourself in.

God... why am I here?

God... where are You?

God... what am I supposed to be doing?

God... where am I supposed to be going?

The wilderness wasn’t God’s punishment because He didn’t care. It was where God took them because He knew something they didn’t.

God knew going the shorter journey through the land of the Philistines was a greater danger to them in the long run. If the Israelites faced the Philistines, their fear might have prompted them to turn back to Egypt. Or, they might have been tempted by the idolatry of the Philistines and turn towards false gods.

God was not unaware of the needs of the Israelites. And God is not unaware of your deepest needs.

The promise of God’s presence would carry the Israelites through what appeared to be their worst nightmare in the wilderness.

Read Exodus 13:21–22. What was the manifestation of God’s presence that went before them?

These manifestations served two important purposes:

... The pillars led the people in the direction that they should go.

... The pillars provided boundaries and protection for the people.

Let’s zoom in on the image here. The Israelites saw the tangible presence of God leading and guiding them day and night. Even though the Israelites cried out in complaints and weariness from the journey that felt purposeless to them, God’s presence continued to guide them.

Here is one of the challenges we face when experiencing unexpected pain and suffering: We can believe there is an underlying meaninglessness to what we’re facing. But through uncovering these details within the story of Israel in the wilderness, we see there is not a single moment of our hardship and hurt that is not used by God to bring forth a greater good and purpose.

God was not unaware of the needs of the Israelites. And God is not unaware of your deepest needs.

The question isn’t so much about the direction in which God is leading us — it’s about our obedience along the way.

Think about where you are today. What might obedience to God look like here?

The pillar of cloud by day and pillar of fire by night didn’t just lead God’s people; it also served as a protective boundary.

The people always knew how far ahead they could go. This clear boundary gave them a visible marking of what too far would be. Too far would simply be to step in front of the pillar of cloud or fire, putting them outside or ahead of the presence of God and the pace of His leading.

Have you experienced the Lord leading you or revealing a boundary to you? What did that look like?

Jesus is “the light of the world.”

JOHN 8:12

When Jesus says He is the “light of the world” in John 8:12, it is a promise of orientation and direction. Just like the pillar of cloud by day and pillar of fire by night provided direction for the Israelites, we have this same guide in the person of Jesus.

In the darkest moments of our life, when we feel unseen, disregarded or abandoned, we can remember that the Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness cannot overcome it (John 1:5). Wherever the Light of Christ is, there is hope. This isn’t just a good-sounding Christian slogan. This is truth. And sometimes it’s helpful to speak this out loud over whatever you are facing. Remember, lies flee in the presence of truth, just like darkness flees in the presence of light.

Jesus is “the way, and the truth, and the life.”

JOHN 14:6

Where there is the light, there is the promise of life. John 1:4 says,

In Him was life, and the life was the light of men.

In Jesus, we find the life all of humanity longs for. And we can also be assured that Jesus will guide us along our way through the Truth of His Word and His presence.

Jesus is the “good shepherd” who promises to lead His people.

JOHN 10:11; JOHN 10:27

Sheep depend on the care and protection of a shepherd, and we can depend on the care of Jesus as our Good Shepherd. Read the words of Jesus in John 10:27–28:

My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand.

This takes some humility to lean into His guidance, but we also need to grow attuned to the voice of Jesus so we can obey when He is speaking to us. In the hard, desolate places in our lives, it can feel like Jesus is absent. But if we take a moment to pause, be silent, watch, and really listen, we can both see the light of His presence and hear the comfort of His voice.

Excerpted from 30 Days with Jesus by Lysa TerKeurst and Joel Muddamalle, copyright Lysa TerKeurst and Joel Muddamalle.

Prov 3:5-6

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,

and do not lean on your own understanding.

6 In all your ways acknowledge him,

and he will make straight your paths.

1 Peter 5:6-8

Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, 7 casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith October 25, 2023

Notes of Faith October 25, 2023

Burying the Hatchet: The Offending Party

Every broken relationship has an offending party. True reconciliation calls for a repentant heart on their part, a change of mind, a turn-around, a going back to someone with an admission of wrong and a request for forgiveness. Paul framed it like this to Philemon:

I am sending him [Onesimus] — who is my very heart — back to you. — Philemon 12 NIV

Onesimus, the offending party, had become one “heart” with Paul. They were now more closely related as brothers in Christ through the blood of Jesus than to their own blood relatives who did not know Him. Since Christ had now transformed Onesimus’s life, he had no option but to go back and make things right. The Greek word for this repentance literally means “to change one’s mind.” Onesimus had a genuine change of mind about his past actions. He was not headed home to argue his case. He was on his way back to admit his wrong and hopefully bury the hatchet with Philemon. Some of us make this journey back, but when we arrive on the scene, we try to justify our past actions or even argue our case. Not Onesimus. He was taking responsibility.

Let’s revisit the story from chapter 1 about the Prodigal Son, the greatest short story ever told by Jesus. The prodigal was the offending party. He skipped out on his dad and left home with his inheritance. After wasting it all, he “came to himself” (Luke 15:17). He changed his mind about the entire ordeal. This led to a change of volition, of will, as he said,

I will arise and go to my father. — Luke 15:18

And this resulted in a change of action when he got up and headed home.

Repentance is a change of mind that affects a change of will that results in a change of action.

And the father greeted the boy with open arms and a receptive heart that was void of retaliation or resentment. They buried the hatchet then and there. Onesimus, like the prodigal, was on his way home. He doesn’t send a word of apology back from someone else. This was personal. He was going back himself.

When we have relationships that are based upon the solid foundation of being properly related to our source, the Lord Jesus, we are not out to escape our past, get a pass, or run from our mistakes. But

a relationship with Him enables us to face our past, find a new beginning, and make wiser choices going forward.

Onesimus was headed home to Philemon to face the consequences of what he did and hopefully to make right his previous wrong.

This might be a different story today if Onesimus had sought counsel from some so-called professionals in the field today, instead of finding it in the wise counsel of the apostle Paul. Some today, after listening to his story, would have offered advice that said, “Look, forget about the past. You can find justification for what happened. Put it behind you. Go on with your life. Learn from your mistakes. Forget about Philemon.” And had he taken counsel like this, he would have lived out his days, as many do today, with something left unfinished and a dark cloud that always hung over his head. That is no way to live a positive and purposeful life.

In God’s economy, the way up is down, and the way down is up.

Often the way forward is back. Back — to admit I was wrong in ways I always insisted I was right. Back — to make the previous wrong right. This is one of the great paradoxes of the Christian life.

In God’s economy, the way up is down, and the way down is up.

Paul added an additional paradox to the equation that the way forward is back. He wrote,

I am sending him — who is my very heart — back to you. — Philemon 12 NIV

It was along these same lines of seeing that the way forward is back that Jesus said,

If you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.

— Matthew 5:23–24

Do you see it? This is one of life’s great paradoxes — the way forward is back!

This is the actual point of frustration with many of us, although it is seldom recognized as such. That is, we try to move on, to go forward, but something is left undone, and we must first go back in order to go forward. It just may be that unless someone reading these words goes back, forward progress will be thwarted, and future days will be spent in relational cul-de-sacs, roundabouts, or worse, dead ends.

Only in Hollywood is such nonsense as “Love means never having to say you are sorry” successful. In real life, relationships do not succeed on that premise.

Those who enjoy profitable, long-term relationships know what it is to go back to say, “I am sorry. I was wrong. Please forgive me.”

Onesimus gives us hope. If you think your particular case is hopeless, look at his. There is always hope for anyone who will admit to being the offending party. When we do, we can join Onesimus in some pretty good company. Moses, the highly revered emancipator of the Jewish people, was a murderer. But he discovered the way forward was back. After forty years on the back side of a desert, he went back and delivered a nation. And what about King David? He was exhibit A of an offending party. He stole the affections of another man’s wife, got her pregnant, and even orchestrated her husband’s demise and death. But later, plagued with remorse and repentance, he discovered the way forward was back. If anyone should doubt the sincerity of his repentance, simply read the Fifty-First Psalm. And let’s not forget Jonah. He shook his fist in the face of God and His plan and later, while in the belly of a great fish, discovered the way forward was back. God gave him a second chance. Finally, no talk of the second chance would be complete without a mention of Simon Peter, the big fisherman. He did what he insisted he would never do. He denied he ever knew the Christ. But he, too, discovered the life-changing principle that the way forward is back. He went back, met Christ on the seashore in genuine repentance, and then did he ever go forward. Just read of his exploits in the book of Acts.

When we go back, God forgives. And then we can move forward to our greatest days. The way forward is still back.

Who is it that gets the ball of reconciliation rolling? Both sides must do their part. There must be a repentant heart on the part of the offending party and a receptive heart on the part of the offended party. Relational difficulties persist when we who are the offending party become blind to our own abuses and refuse to admit we were wrong. After a while of continuing to try to justify our actions, we actually begin to believe the lie. Consequently, too many of us live out our days with unfinished business.

The hatchet of broken relationships will never be buried until there is genuine repentance on the part of the offending party. The way forward is back!

Excerpted from The Connection Code by O. S. Hawkins, copyright Dr. O. S. Hawkins.

Repentance…not sure there are too many people living today that know and understand this word. A true turning from something toward something else. This is what is needed to have a relationship with God, for we are the one who offended, disobeyed, was an enemy. In any relationship we may need to be repentant, ask forgiveness and then we can truly move on and heal those relationships. May we come to God and by His grace be spiritually healed and given eternal life!

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith October 24, 2023

Notes of Faith October 24, 2023

The Theology of Gratitude

Sometimes our fears and worries feel more like wolves circling us in the dark than little creatures nibbling away at our peace. In a world where we’ve been anxious over everything from the fragility of complex systems to the availability of hospital beds and baby formula, we need to nurture thankful hearts and minds full of gratitude.

To approach any situation, any dilemma, any frightening report “with thanksgiving” adds a dimension that melts away anxiety like winter’s ice on a sunny day. No matter our crisis or concern, there are always notable items for which we can be thankful, and finding them is critical to winning the fight. If we don’t find those items and thank God for them, we cannot overcome anxiety.

Gratitude is to worry what antibiotics are to an infection.

The old practice of “counting our blessings” is an effective modern treatment for what ails the mind. Giving thanks is essential to mental health.

I believe that’s what the apostle Paul learned as well. He seemed, by nature, high-strung and keyed up. But Paul had learned to weave the concept of “with thanksgiving” into the fabric of his thinking, and gratitude appeared incessantly in his writing.

He spoke of it in theological terms, as though it were as important as any other doctrine.

This shows up clearly in his letter to the Colossians where, throughout its four chapters, we find Paul’s theology of gratitude — which, incidentally, had also become a habit of gratitude — on every page.

“We always thank God,” the apostle wrote in Colossians 1:3. Then down in verse 10, Paul commanded the Colossians: “Live a life worthy of the Lord and please Him in every way.” We do that by:

bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to His glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and giving joyful thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of His holy people in the Kingdom of light. — Colossians 1:10–12

Gratitude is to worry what antibiotics are to an infection.

Colossians 2 continues the theme:

So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in Him, rooted and built up in Him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. — Colossians 2:6–7

Imagine you were a river. If thanksgiving were measured like water, would you be a dry gulch, a trickle, brimming at the banks, or overflowing at flood stage? How you and I answer that simple question says something about our mental health and our ability to manage our anxieties.

The next chapter of Colossians extends the connection between gratitude and peace of mind:

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts... And be thankful... And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him. — Colossians 3:15–17).

Then we come to Colossians 4, which commands,

Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. — Colossians 4:2

This theme isn’t just found in Colossians, of course. It runs like a stream from the first pages of Scripture to the last ones, and it’s interlaced into the Bible as fully as any doctrine. Dr. Al Mohler wrote, “Thanksgiving is a deeply theological act, rightly understood. As a matter of fact, thankfulness is theology in microcosm — a key to understanding what we really believe about God, ourselves, and the world we experience.”1

Albert Mohler, “Thanksgiving as a Theological Act,” November 23, 2016, AlbertMohler.com, http://www.albertmohler.com/2016/11/23/ thanksgiving-theological-act-mean-give-thanks/.

Excerpted from Calm Your Anxiety by Robert Morgan, copyright Robert J. Morgan.

We are getting closer to “Thanksgiving” when everyone seems to have their mind focused on giving thanks. But why are we not always in this state of mind? God’s love and provision for us is never-ending, always caring for and blessing even through trials and tribulations. Though it is difficult, my prayer for you and for me, is that we learn to give thanks to God in every situation, knowing that He is ultimately in control of all things, allowing things in our life for spiritual growth, learning to trust Him, grow in faith, recognizing the end result is to glorify God and our highest blessing in Christ.

Pastor Dale