Notes of Faith February 4, 2021

THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT
Galatians 5:22, 23

“For the Fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, - peace, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control, against such there is no law.”

LONG SUFFERING

Long Suffering - Putting up with a person or situation for a long time.

     God is a long suffering God.

     •  Toward sinners - II Peter 3:8, I Timothy 1:16

     •  Toward believers - Psalm 86:15

God is long suffering, not wishing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.

We are to be imitators of God our Father - long suffering with our non believing world, to one another, as well as to situations we find ourselves in. 

KINDNESS

Another virtue of our Heavenly Father is kindness.  Believers are to be characterized by kindness.  God’s people are never to be unkind to anyone.  In Ephesians 4:32 we read that God expects us to be kind -

Be ye kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.

See also I Cor. 13:4, II Tim. 2:24, Prov. 31:26 and Col. 3:12.

Love to you all,

Charles Covington

May we feed deeply on the Word of God and pray fervently for an intimate relationship with Him that we may yield to the Spirit within us and produce abundant fruit!

Pastor Dale

 

Notes of Faith February 3, 2021

How should Christians respond when being canceled by the culture?

Nathan Jones: In the last few weeks, the world has witnessed, to its utter dismay, social media silencing presidents, shutting up Conservatives, and canceling Christians. And, the list of those being canceled continues to expand. Whistleblowers sitting in on secret Big Tech meetings have revealed that these monopolies plan on broadening their restrictions and shutting down a lot more people. We now live in a time period defined as the Cancel Culture.

Tim Moore: Before we look at the answer to that question, we must point out that there has long been a precedent for Christians being "canceled" by the culture.

Lessons from the New Testament

Nathan Jones: We can look back to the beginnings of the Church in the first century. We read in Acts 4 how just after Pentecost the Apostles went out into Jerusalem preaching about Jesus Christ crucified and having resurrected from the dead. In a panicked response, the elite religious leaders of that day — the Pharisees — dragged the Apostles before the Sanhedrin.

Verse 18 tells the story, "So they [the Sanhedrin] called them [the Apostles] and commanded them not to speak at all nor teach in the name of Jesus." And verses 19-20 reveal how they responded: "But Peter and John answered and said to them, 'Whether it is right in the sight of God to listen to you more than to God, you judge. For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard.'" The Apostles strongly believed they must continue to speak because God's authority was higher than man's authority.

Tim Moore: The ruling elite of that time were making an effort to cancel the followers of Christ. As a matter of fact, in the very next chapter, in Acts chapter 5, somebody saw that the Apostles were still out and about preaching, so the Sanhedrin called their captain and ordered him to bring the Apostles before the magistrates and the chief priest yet again. They chastised them in verse 28, "We gave you strict orders not to continue this teaching in this Name, and yet you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching, and intend to bring this man's blood upon us!"

Yet again, Peter and the other Apostles reiterated their stance in verse 29, "We must obey God rather than men." Enraged, the religious elite made their ultimate intent to cancel the Apostles known in verse 33, "When they heard this, they were cut to the quick and intended to kill them."

This story demonstrates that there have been people all the way back since the beginning of the Church Age who have wanted to silence Christians, even to the point of killing them if necessary in order to shut them up.

Lessons from Church History

Nathan Jones: We can look at the Christians suffering in the Roman Empire up until Emperor Constantine. For nearly 300 years of Church history, the persecution of Christians went from bad to worse. Christians were used as torches lighting up Caesar's gardens. They were thrown to the hungry lions in the arenas. These represent the extreme cases of living in a cancel culture.

For the general Christian populace, they were cast out of the mainstream society economically. In some areas, the Romans were told they couldn't buy from Christians, which is rather reminiscent of the treatment of the Jews during Nazi Germany. If you bought from Christians your risked becoming an outcast as well. Christians were also shut out of the political arena.

Society for the last 2,000 years throughout much of the world has been trying to cancel Christians and so end Christianity. Only during the last few hundred years have we in the West been living in this kind of pocket where Judeo-Christian values have allowed Christianity to flourish without challenge. But, for the rest of the world, and throughout much of history, the Church has been canceled everywhere it has reached.

Tim Moore: Christians avoiding being persecuted by society has been a fairly recent phenomenon in Western culture. Even during the early years of the Reformation, if you dared to own a Bible, or for heaven's sakes, print a Bible in a language that could be read by the masses, you would be put to death by being burned at the stake by, again, the religious elites. Christians for many centuries have endured great persecution. Long have Christians suffered under the attempts by the culture-controlling elites to cancel Christians and silence the Gospel message.

What has been the result of all of this persecution? The churches have thrived! Christianity is thriving today in places like Communist China, which has been trying hard for decades to stamp out Christianity. Despite harsh persecution, the Lord is bringing into His own those who belong to Him.

Now here we stand in the United States and we are feeling this rising fear that the cultural elites in our country have begun to cancel us. They've started by kicking Christians off of social media platforms, such as eliminating Twitter feeds. But, ask yourself, "What kind of threat is that really?"

Nathan Jones: In truth, it is really no threat at all. Such an attack on our religious freedom and freedom of speech may seem scary at first, but Church history has also taught us that every time society has tried to cancel Christianity, it makes Christians look like the victims. And, what do people like? They end up rooting for the underdog.

The world watches closely to the way that Christians behave. For instance, before abortion became medically accessible, the Romans were notorious for taking their unwanted babies and throwing them into the fields to let them die. But, the Christians would go around and collect the babies and create orphanages and take care of the discarded children. Society looked at that odd behavior and took notice that there was something different about these people. Christians actually loved other people! In pagan societies, the people could care less about other people. They witnessed the love of Christ being demonstrated. That love drew the lost straight to the Gospel.

We all know from history that the Roman Empire inevitably collapsed, not only due to their own rampant immorality, but because of the rise of Christianity. And so, wherever there is the persecution of Christians in the land, Christianity grows.

Let's also look at China as a modern-day example. Back in the 1800s, missionaries traveled to China and planted little Gospel seeds, that is, until the missionaries were pushed out by the government. Today, there are millions upon millions of Christians living in China. The more they are persecuted, the more other people are attracted to the Gospel, and the bigger the Church grows. And, as it grows, the more Christianity looks like a threat to the ruling elites, and so the more the ruling elite ramp up the pressure. So, it is interesting how God uses persecution to grow His Church.

Endure for the Cause

Tim Moore: I think back to what the writer of Hebrews had to say in 12:1-2. "Therefore since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith. Who for the joy was set before Him, enduring the cross, despising the shame, and then sat down at the right hand of God."

Then the author goes on in verse 4 to pose this observation, "You have not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood." He's not talking about reacting to the Cancel Culture by running out and shedding other people's blood and so bring about our own persecution. Rather, how many of us in this country right now have been persecuted to the point of being imprisoned, beaten, and enduring violence so that our own blood is shed?

Surely, I believe the open, violent persecution of Christians will inevitably happen in this country. Already there have been some Christians fined and jailed for their faith, and there will be many more coming in the days ahead. But firstly, attempts will grow to ostracize, silence, rob Christians of their livelihood, and shut down our churches.

The questions I would pose then is, "Are we prepared to endure any fate for the cause of Christ?" As a soldier in the Air Force, I took an oath to give my life in service for the cause of patriotism and loyalty to the United States. But, I ask myself, "What am I willing to endure, or to be subjected to, for the cause of Christ?" As a Christian, I believe the same level of loyalty is deserving to Jesus Christ as it was serving in the military or in any other kind of profession.

Nathan Jones: Absolutely! We've got to remember that as Christians we were bought, we were paid for a price, by Jesus Christ who shed His own blood so that we might be saved. Therefore, we are His. Our lives aren't our lives to give, rather they are Jesus' lives to give. And, He uses those lives to bring other people to know Him as Savior. So, from the eternal perspective, millions upon millions of people will come to know Jesus as their Savior by God's work through believers' lives demonstrating His love and long-suffering. This little bit of suffering we endure today is nothing compared to the eternity of joy that we have lying ahead of us in Heaven.

We may soon endure much more persecution as believers in this country. Actually, I'm sure we will. So, the question left us is, "What are you prepared to endure for the cause of Christ?" I hope we all think about that. I hope we all will prayerfully weigh in. And, I hope you will be prepared in your heart for whatever the Lord has in store for you so that His name may be proclaimed and that He may be glorified.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith February 2, 2021

THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT
Galatians 5:22, 23

“For the Fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, PEACE, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control, against such there is no law.”

PEACE

Peace, like joy, is seen in several aspects.

1.   Peace with God (Romans 5:1).  This is a peace relationship established between sinners and God through the crosswork of Christ.

2.   Peace of God (Philippians 4: 6, 7).  Tranquil peace of heart.  An experiential peace that comes through prayer and faith.  This peace surpasses our ability to understand it.

3.   Peace is multiplied (II Peter 1:2).  The greater our knowledge of Christ, the greater our peace.

4.   Peace with others (I Thessalonians 5:13).  God expects this of His people.

5.   Christ is our peace (Ephesians 2:14; John 16:33).  No real peace apart from Christ.

6.   Peace rules in our life (Colossians 3:15).  We are to LET it rule!

Peace = harmony.  In Christ we are in harmony with God.  There is harmony within our life.  There is harmony with others. Harmony is the ruling factor in the Christian’s heart.

No religion can produce this.  No brand of philosophy can do it.  Only Jesus Christ through the Holy Spirit can bring this wonderful peace.

Love to you all,  Charles Covington

John 14:27
Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.
NAS

Phil 4:6-7
6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
NIV

Isa 26:3
3 Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.
KJV

Peace with God and peace from God cannot be found anywhere but in God.  Let your mind focus on Him and His desire for you and you will find peace.

Pastor Dale

Notes of Faith February 1, 2021

Come and listen, all you who fear God, and I will tell you what He did for me. — Psalm 66:16 NLT 

Poor Daddy. He just couldn’t shake it. Shame weighed him down like a dead body strapped to his back. No matter how many times I told him that God loved and accepted him just the way he was, he couldn’t believe it. That kind of grace was unfathomable, unthinkable, unbelievable... especially for a man like him. 

I grew up in a home that was filled with angry outbursts, violent arguments, alcohol-induced mayhem. My dad was an emotionally active volcano with occasional periods of dormancy. My mom was a bitter and wounded woman who sometimes had stretches of sweet normalcy. I was just scared. 

However when I was fourteen-years-old, a woman in my neighborhood took me by the hand and heart and lead me to Jesus. Three years later, my mom made a decision to follow Christ as well.  

But what about my dad? He had many vices. Alcohol, pornography, gambling, and illicit relationships with other women — all common knowledge in the small town where we lived. And while the drinking stopped and the physical violence stopped, some of his other vices continued. And even though my dad agreed to go to church with us, he never believed that God could forgive a man like him.  

Six years after I came to Christ, my dad was facing a lawsuit and ruination in our small town. On the verge of a nervous breakdown, he hopped in his car and drove from North Carolina to Pennsylvania to try and find my mom who was attending a business meeting. It was then that God dipped his pen in the inkwell and continued writing one of his best stories ever.  

Once there, he stopped by a random church. “Is the preacher here?” he pled. “I need someone to pray for me!” 

“I’m sorry,” the receptionist replied. “He’s not in at the moment. But I know a pastor of the church down the street, is out doing some construction on his new church building in the woods.” The receptionist grabbed a scrap piece of paper and drew a map. “Why don’t you drive on over and find him? I bet he can help.” 

Dad jumped back in his car and drove to a church out in the country where he found a man with a hammer in his hand and Jesus in his heart. 

“Let’s sit down here on this log,” the pastor began. “Now, tell me what’s going on.” 

For several hours, Dad sat with this stranger and told him all he had ever done. When my dad finished his confession, the pastor placed his strong arm around my dad’s shaking shoulders and said, “Now, Allan, let me tell you what I’ve done. You see, I was a man much like you.” 

The pastor pulled back the curtain on his own dark past and followed with the subsequent unfolding of forgiveness, redemption, and healing from Jesus. 

That day, my dad and a pastor whom I’ll never know knelt in the woods of Pennsylvania and prayed the sinner’s prayer.

My dad entered the woods as a sinner and came out a saint. 

What turned him around? Well, for sure and for certain it was the power of the Holy Spirit that quickened his dead spirit to life. But there was something more. Because this pastor wasn’t ashamed of his story — he wasn’t afraid to tell about his past — Dad saw the healing, forgiving, grace-filled power of Jesus up close and personal. His gaping wounds met the balm of grace through a man who was willing to reveal the most despicable parts of his own story, and how God forgave him. Dad had finally met a man just like him. 

The way my father explained it to me when he came home was: “That man told me his story. He had done everything I had done. And I knew that if God could forgive him and he could be a pastor, then he could forgive me too.” 

The Power of Story 

Stories are powerful. They are an essential part of what it means to be human. From the dawn of time, stories allowed humans to connect with each other and give meaning to life.

Rather than listening to facts, stories help us put ourselves in the scene and experience the emotions, sights, sounds, and stirrings of other people. A story invites us to become participants rather than mere spectators. 

Stories evoke emotion and make otherwise abstract principles come to life. Isn’t that what Jesus did all throughout the Gospels? He told stories. Rather than teach forgiveness principles, Jesus told a story about a man with two sons recorded in Luke 15:11-32. One took his inheritance before his father died and squandered it on wild living. After he lost everything he had, the son came to his senses and returned home to his father. His dad forgave him, gave him a new set of clothes, and hosted a grand celebration. In telling the story, Jesus was essentially saying, “There, that’s what forgiveness looks like.” 

Rather than teach about Heaven, Jesus told a story recorded in Matthew 20:1-16 about a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire men to work in his vineyard.

He went out again and again at multiple times throughout the day. Even at the eleventh hour, with only a little time left in the workday, he hired a few more stragglers. At day’s end, he paid all the workers the same wage, whether they had worked all day or just an hour. Again, Jesus was saying, “There, that’s what Heaven is like." 

Story. Ah, we get it.  

The story of what God has done in your life makes Him real to those who hear it. Some might balk at biblical principles or try to argue with theology, but they can’t deny a person’s personal experience. That’s what happened with the man born blind in that Jesus healed in John 9. When the Pharisees kept asking how he received his sight, he just kept repeating his story over and over.  

Every Christian has a story to tell. Maybe you didn’t have a meth lab in your basement or work the streets as a prostitute. Perhaps you were raised in a Christian home with loving parents who cherished you. Either way, you were blind, but now you see. You were spiritually dead, and Jesus made you alive in Christ. Death to life never gets old. 

We should never diminish the power of our stories, no matter how dark or disappointing they may be, no matter how boring or uneventful they may seem. Don’t hide your story in hopes no one will ever see. Tell it. Show it.

Celebrate God’s work through it. Let your story be evidence of your strength and bravery that shouts to the world that a new ending is possible. Realize that your disappointments, bad decisions, and darkest struggles can be the most life-changing parts of your story. Your worst chapters can become your greatest victories. 

Written for Devotionals Daily by Sharon Jaynes, author of When You Don’t Like Your Story. 

Your story matters! Ask in your prayers and you will have a divine appointment and be able to share how God led you from your bad decisions through His grace and mercy to a new beginning. Your story can be the catalyst for someone’s coming to Christ for eternal salvation!

Pastor Dale

 

Notes of Faith January 31, 2021

Pastor’s Pen Pulpit
Series - “Fruit of the Spirit”
January 23, 2000

 

THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT
Galatians 5:22, 23

“For the Fruit of the Spirit is love, JOY, peace, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control, against such there is no law.”

JOY

Joy is viewed in several connections in the Bible.

John 15:11 - This is Christ’s joy in us.

“These things I have spoken to you that my joy may remain in you and that your joy may be full.”

Note:  Joy is associated with the Word.  Jesus said, “the Holy Spirit (Who operates in the realm of written truth) would take of mine and show it unto you.” John 16:13, 14

Psalm 16:11 - “In Thy presence is fullness of joy.”  The Holy Spirit leads us into the presence of Christ.  In Christ we are in the presence of the Father.

Jesus prays to the Father in John 17:13 -

“But now I come to You, and these things I speak in the world, that they may have My joy fulfilled in themselves.”

The people in Nehemiah’s day had tried many substitutes for God to be strong.  They discovered that joy was the source of their strength and God and His Word were the source of their joy.

Nehemiah 8:10 -

“The joy of the Lord is your strength.”

Nehemiah 8:12 -

“God’s people rejoiced greatly when they understood The Word read to them.”

Bottom Line:  Jesus is our joy.  We have nothing without Him.

JOY is Jesus (J) and you (Y) - with nothing (O) in-between!

Love to all - Charles Covington

O to add.  Jesus is my joy!

Pastor Dale

 

Notes of Faith January 30, 2021

God, the one and only — I’ll wait as long as He says. — Psalm 62:1, The Message 

God is not one among many. When we pray we are not covering our bases. Prayer is not a way of checking out a last resort of potential help. We understandably want to explore all the options: we write letters, make telephone calls, visit prospects, arrange interviews. We don’t know who might be useful to us at any one time. Of course, we cultivate God. But not in prayer. We try it, but it doesn’t work.  

Prayer is exclusive. Prayer is centering... We can’t pray with one eye on the main chance and a side glance for God. Prayer trains the soul to singleness of focus: for God alone.  

~Where Your Treasure Is 

THE REASON FOR PRAYER  

Let my cry come right into your presence, God. — Psalm 119:170, The Message 

The Psalms were not prayed by people trying to understand themselves. They are not the record of people searching for the meaning of life. They were prayed by people who understood that God had everything to do with them. God, not their feelings, was the center. God, not their souls, was the issue. God, not the meaning of life, was critical.  

Feelings, souls, and meanings were not excluded — they are very much in evidence — but they are not the reason for the prayers. Human experiences might provoke the prayers, but they do not condition them as prayers.  

~Answering God  

PRAYING IN THIS PLACE  

“How could we sing the Lord’s song in a foreign land?” — Psalm 137:4, NRSV 

How can we sing the Lord’s song in a strange land?” The Israelites didn’t think they could. But they did. My, how they did! How did they do it?... They immersed themselves in Torah-meditation: before they knew it they were praying. They were trees. Transplanted to Babylon they put down roots, put out leaves, and produced fruit.  

We all suppose that we could pray, or pray better, if we were in the right place. We put off praying until we are where we think we should be, or want to be. We let our fantasies or our circumstances distract us from attending to the word of God that is aimed right where we are, and invites our answers from that spot.  

~Answering God  

MY SOUL WAITS  

For God alone my soul waits in silence, for my hope is from Him. — Psalm 62:5, RSV 

My soul waits. Another will is greater, wiser and more intelligent than my own. So I wait. Waiting means there is another whom I trust and from whom I receive. My will, important and essential as it is, finds a will that is more important, more essential...  

I begin to pray by attempting to manipulate the will of God. I end by putting myself in a position to be moved by His will. Waiting in prayer is a disciplined refusal to act before God acts.  

~Where Your Treasure Is  

Excerpted from God’s Message for Each Day by Eugene Peterson, copyright Eugene H. Peterson. 

Why do we sometimes avoid prayer? Why do we sometimes think of it as a last resort? Prayer is our connection to God. It is how we hear His voice, receive His direction, and follow His will. It’s how we grow and change into the person God created us to be!

Pastor Dale

 

Notes of Faith January 29, 2021

Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.

— Luke 12:7

Never take for granted My intimate nearness. Marvel at the wonder of My continual Presence with you. Even the most ardent human lover cannot be with you always. Nor can another person know the intimacies of your heart, mind, and spirit. I know everything about you — even the number of hairs on your head. You don’t need to work at revealing yourself to Me.

Many people spend a lifetime or a small fortune searching for someone who understands them. Yet I am freely available to all who call upon My Name, who open their hearts to receive Me as Savior. This simple act of faith is the beginning of a lifelong love story.

I, the Lover of your soul, understand you perfectly and love you eternally.

What does God’s “ultimate nearness” mean? Do you take His Presence for granted? How?

What comfort does God’s loving knowledge — even the number of hairs on your head — provide?

We are not only fully known and understood but also eternally loved. What assurances does this give?

Read more: Psalm 145:18 NKJV; John 1:12; Romans 10:13

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Finding Him

Therefore, holy brothers, who share in the heavenly calling, fix your thoughts on Jesus, the apostle and high priest whom we confess. — Hebrews 3:1

I am renewing your mind. When your thoughts flow freely, they tend to move toward problems. Your focus gets snagged on a given problem, circling round and round it in attempts to gain mastery. Your energy is drained away from other matters through this negative focus. Worst of all, you lose sight of Me.

A renewed mind is Presence- focused.

Train your mind to seek Me in every moment, every situation. Sometimes you can find Me in your surroundings: a lilting birdsong, a loved one’s smile, golden sunlight. At other times, you must draw inward to find Me. I am always present in your spirit.

Seek My Face, speak to Me, and I will light up your mind.

Do your thoughts “tend to move toward problems”? Why?

How have you seen the truth that “a renewed mind is Presence-focused” in your own life?

God is always present with us. When do you feel God most near?

Read more: Psalm 105:4; Romans 12:2

Excerpted from Life in His Presence: A Jesus Calling Guided Journal  by Sarah Young, copyright Sarah Young. 

God’s nearness is the invaluable gift of being His child. We can seek Him every moment of every day, in every circumstance and find Him. He knows every detail about us (even those that we don’t know) and loves us completely.  How great is the love of God!  Let us pursue His love by living within it, a life pleasing to God that brings Him glory and honor.  Thank Him for His nearness to you.

Pastor Dale

 

Notes of Faith January 28, 2021

Hope that is seen is not hope; for who hopes for what he already sees? — Romans 8:24 

Do you have a preconceived idea about how God is going to meet your needs? Throughout the years, I’ve encountered a number of people who have explained how they believed the Lord should answer their petitions. This is always a path to disaster because God’s ways are higher than ours, and He rarely acts in a manner we can predict.

And when the Lord didn’t comply with their plans, they grew angry and disheartened with Him.  

But understand that God’s purpose in allowing you to face a challenge or need is, first, for you to learn to rely on Him.

Second, it is for others to see the Lord’s power and presence in your life so they’ll be drawn to Him. If He responds to you in a manner you can figure out or any person can replicate, where is the glory for Him? No, He must show Himself to be almighty God — beyond what anyone can accomplish in human strength or wisdom. 

Therefore, today, stand before the Lord and declare, “I trust You completely to meet my needs in Your timing and according to Your methods.”

Have faith in Him even when you can’t figure Him out. And allow Him to be glorified through you.  

Jesus, show Yourself to be God in my situation. I have faith in You. Amen.  

The Real Need 

After desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. 
— James 1:15 NIV 

Name the problems that plague our world, and you can trace them back to underlying emotional or spiritual needs in people’s lives. Whether it’s substance abuse, poverty, broken families, crime, or violence — every destructive condition grows out of profound internal needs that are first manifested in the heart.  

People react to the circumstances that they believe are the source of their unmet needs but that are often only symptoms. For example, a person may think that money will alleviate the problems and dissatisfactions he has in life, and he may respond to that perceived need in a manner that is unhealthy, ungodly, and ultimately unsatisfactory — with anything from workaholism to theft. But in reality, the deep inner need he is really feeling might be for respect, personal worth, or security. That is an oversimplification, but you see the pattern. That person will be answering the wrong question about what really fills his soul.  

Friend, don’t make that mistake. God not only reveals the true source of your need but satisfies it beyond imagination.

Seek Him and trust Him to be all you require.  

Jesus, the truth is that I need You. Please help me see past my perceived needs to the deep inner cry You want to satisfy in me. Amen. 

Excerpted with permission from God’s Purpose for Your Life by Dr. Charles F. Stanley, copyright Dr. Charles F. Stanley. 

God is everything we truly need.  In Him, we can have real fulfillment, joy, hope, and contentment. When we trust Him and allow Him to rule, our lives are truly blessed!

Pastor Dale

 

Notes of Faith January 27, 2021

Dear God, 

I know you do a lot. They say you hold the atmosphere together with your hands and command the sun to rise each morning. You know what I’d trade for all of that? Knowing without a doubt that you care. Drop the atmosphere and hold me. 

Me  

Dear God, 

Why did you make spiders? Were you mad? Did you think they were cute with all those legs? I respect you, but I don’t think spiders were your best work. Unless you wanted us to live in fear, in which case, I say, “Mission accomplished.”  

Love,  

Me 

Dear God, 

This broken, bloody world, my broken, bloody life. Is this your masterpiece? Are our tears and bones your mediums? How can I pretend you care about me in a world where innocents suffer? How can I pretend to matter? You don’t know how badly I crave your attention, or maybe you do. I hate it here. 

Love, 

Me 

Dear God, 

Why can’t butter be healthy? Are mushrooms really even food? Why didn’t you make seedless pomegranates? You know we’d love that. It’s like a puzzle. Isn’t life hard enough? Why is the mango seed so big? Like, really big? It easily takes up half the mango. Is there a lesson in that? 

Like, for every mango in life, is there a big seed? Sorry, I’m hungry. 

Love, 

Me 

Dear God, 

I decided not to believe in you. I was upset. Devastated, actually. Tired of feeling like I’m speaking into empty air. But that’s not true. I can feel you almost all the time. I was tired of being in pain. You could have rescued me if you wanted to, but you didn’t. That made me so sad. And angry. So I renounced you in my soul and turned my back. For three solid hours. 

Did you miss me? I’m still kind of mad. 

Me 

Dear God, 

Thank you for 

good hugs 

cups of tea 

bonfires 

the sound of rain 

the kind of laughter that only gets more intense when you 

try to stop

brick walls

good graffiti 

strangers with kind eyes 

strangers who don’t look at you when you’re crying in public quiet, deep people 

loud, animated people 

responsible people 

messy people (Hi) 

my bed 

untouched snow 

hoodies 

buttered popcorn 

crisp apples 

iced coffee 

fresh doughnuts 

socks of all kinds 

olive oil 

distressed wood

blankets 

Me 

Dear God, 

Assuming I get to heaven, I don’t want neighbors. 

Me 

Dear God, 

Forgiving someone who isn’t sorry feels like washing a car that isn’t mine. Why should I do it? Because you forgive me over and over? You’re literally God though. I’m a trash human. Please help me forgive. If only because the anger is slowly but surely choking me. 

Me 

Dear God, 

Why do you hide? Is it because you want me to seek? I’m tired. And lost. And tired. Come out. 

Love, 

Me 

Dear God, 

Caterpillars are gross. Butterflies are beautiful. I see what you did there. 

Love, 

Me 

Dear God, 

You saved me. You’ve saved me more than once, and I don’t know why. I go back and forth between gratitude and sadness. The pain could’ve been over, but it would have just begun — like the worst baton pass of all time — for the ones I love the most. So I’m here. Why me? There have been so many others you didn’t save, whose souls you didn’t give another chance, so why me? 

A blanket of thankfulness and nothingness is draped over me. Nothing feels right. You brought me back, but where are you? I’m alone. 

Me 

Dear God, 

I can feel your compassion surrounding me. In these moments when I feel your gentle eye on me, I know you’re my father, and I’m not afraid. Stay. 

Me 

Excerpted from Dear God by Bunmi Laditan, copyright Bunmi Laditan. 

These prayers are so honest and simple. Sometimes, we make prayer too complicated. We don’t say what we mean, we try to keep secrets from God as if that’s possible. He already knows, so just talk to Him.

Pastor Dale

 

Notes of Faith January 26, 2021

Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out — Proverbs 10:9 

Am I Being Honest with Myself... Really?  

The easiest person to deceive is the person in the mirror. It shouldn’t be this way, but it is. 

We’ll talk about why in a paragraph or two. But for the moment, let that sink in. Actually, allow me to rub it in. You have talked yourself into... deceived yourself into... every bad decision you have ever made. Worse, you were the mastermind behind most of your regrettable decisions. Financial, relational, professional, academic. You were there for and willingly participated in all of ’em.  

You’ve done more to undermine you own success and progress than anyone on the planet. Granted, there were outside pressures. Other voices. People promising you stuff. Maybe even threatening you with stuff. But in the end, you decided. But in most cases, you didn’t decide by carefully weighing all the options and seeking wise counsel. You did the opposite.  

In many instances, maybe even most, you knew better. Or, you should have known better. But, you ignored know better and started selling yourself on what yourself wanted in the moment.  

It’s embarrassing. We lecture kids against participating in this kind of nonsense. And I’m not pointing fingers. I participated in all my bad decisions as well. And yes, in many instances, I knew better.  

So what’s up?  

What’s up is that when it comes to good decision-making, we face our greatest challenge every morning in the mirror. Self-leadership is the greatest leadership challenge any of us face. But self-leadership is a critical component to our success in every arena of life. You’ll never be a leader worth following if you don’t lead yourself well. And while that’s apparent if you have an official organizational leadership role, it should be equally apparent if you’re a parent.  

If you have children, the outcomes of your decisions are outcomes somebody you love will be forced to live with. Your self-leadership will greatly impact some other selves.  

Consider this.  

Whether or not you want to be like your parents depends upon how well they led themselves, not what they required of or taught you. And whether or not your children will want to be like you...  

Same.

Here’s why. 

Exceptional self-leadership, not authority, is the key to sustained influence. We rarely open ourselves up to the influence of people we don’t respect, even if they have authority over us. So, whether we’re talking about your professional life or your personal life, exceptional self-leadership is important. Your influence won’t last if you don’t lead yourself well first. 

Great leaders last because they lead themselves first.  

But here’s the challenge. 

You can’t lead yourself if you’re lying to yourself. Ever tried to lead a liar? It’s pretty much impossible to lead a liar. In professional settings, you fire a liar. Later I’ll challenge you to do just that. Fire the dishonest version of you and hire a new you... an honest you... a you that always tells you the truth, even when it makes you feel bad about you. Besides, dishonesty leaks. Lie to yourself and you’ll lie to others. FYI, if you have a hard time telling other people the truth when the truth makes you look bad... you’re probably not being honest with yourself either. It works both ways.  

You know from experience that dishonesty erodes credibility and undermines moral authority. In a similar way, when we are dishonest with ourselves, it erodes credibility with ourselves. Sounds strange, I know. But when we lie out loud, what do we immediately do on the inside? In our heads?  

Justify the lie. 
To whom? 
To ourselves. 

We have to. Otherwise we are at odds with ourselves — a state that sane people cannot maintain for long.  

But our internal, private justifications are... well... at best they’re half-truths. Half-truths we believe! Liars lie. You’re not a liar, right? So why did you lie? And off you go, creating a narrative that salvages your flailing self-esteem. And then... then you choose to believe it!  

And why would you believe a narrative you created? You are a sucker for you! You can convince yourself of just about anything.  

Me too.  

I played no sports in middle school or high school. Not officially, anyway. But when I was away from home and someone asked... particularly cute girls and athletic guys... if I played sports in school, I would immediately respond, “I ran track and played soccer.” Technically true. I ran around the track at PE and played pick-up soccer. But that’s not what they were asking and I knew it. I lied. Why? Well, you can guess. But it took me a while to get there.  

Looking back, I want to blame it on frontal lobe development. But the truth is...  

The truth is.  

More difficult to recognize than we want to admit. But admit it we must.  

The truth is, in my high school, if you weren’t an athlete, you just weren’t. You weren’t anything. Of course, that wasn’t true either. But that’s what it felt like. So I created a mostly false narrative and presented it whenever my flailing self-esteem felt threatened.  

Author and professor Erin Brown defines a false narrative as a “Plastic Truth.” She writes:  

What we’ve said so many times in our heads becomes our Plastic Truth. Over time, these fake parts of the story — the pieces we’ve made up — actually cement into the gaps between Truth.  

False narratives become a crutch. We tell ourselves internal stories to avoid facing mistakes... It’s oh-so-much easier to create a story where someone else is to blame than to confront tough things of life.1  

Got any mostly false narratives you carry around just in case? Carry them around too long and mostly false will morph to mostly true. When that happens, you’re just a few degrees away from defining yourself by a Plastic Truth.  

As my AA, NA, and CA friends have repeatedly reminded me, rigorous honesty is the first rule of recovery. They would tell you that dishonesty fuels addictions of all kinds. Every addiction sits at the tail end of a series of decisions — decisions often fueled and protected by a false narrative, a narrative that begins as mostly true and erodes from there.  

Nothing changes until we are brutally honest with the person in the mirror.  

So, why wait until something needs to change?  

Tell yourself the truth even if it makes you feel bad about yourself.  

And what do “Plastic Truth” and false narratives have to do with decision-making?  

A false premise will result in a faulty decision.  

You can’t make the best decision for you until you are honest with you.  

Furthermore, if you aren’t honest about why you are choosing what you are choosing, you will have a difficult time taking responsibility for the outcome of your choosing. We have an adjective for people who refuse to take responsibility for their decisions: Irresponsible.  

A lack of candor in the decision-making process usually results in an inability to own the outcome. This creates a vicious downward spiral that leaves people broken and confused. Want to be broken and confused? Of course you don’t. So, root out your false, plastic, mostly true self-created narratives and kiss ’em goodbye.  

Well, don’t kiss them.  

You may find this to be more difficult than you first thought. In fact, your first step may be being honest with yourself about the fact that you’re not always honest with yourself!  

Every journey begins with a step.  

So, to decide our way into a better future, we must develop the uncomfortable habit of telling ourselves the uncomfortable truth regarding why we are choosing to do what we are choosing to do.  

1.       Erin M. Brown, “Why ‘false narrative’ is your worst enemy,” https://erinbrownconroy.blog/2017/06/02/why-false-narrative-is-your-worst-enemy/

Excerpted from Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets by Andy Stanley, copyright Andy Stanley. 

Telling the truth can be hard.  Telling ourselves the truth can be harder still.   But, integrity matters! Let yourself be uncomfortable in the truth. Face it with the Lord and then move forward with His help. You’ll be glad you did!

Pastor Dale